"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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new girlfriend, keeping game on track

glowstix

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Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TxCowboy

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Sounds to me like she's already insecure. You should use a little C&F and bust on her saying something like "Why do you have to be so insecure, dont you trust me??"

I know if they can flip through your phone, then you should be able to flip through their's. Its a 2 way street ...
 

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Originally posted by glowstix
Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
First of all, you are AFC.

You limit yourself to seeing her once a week?

WTF?? why so she doesn't see the real you or because you don't want to pay for dates.

Your Cell phone is like your diary???

please! No you didn't put your foot down but you should of put your foot in your mouth, idiot.

You do not need to shower her with gift or exspensive dates, you should see her more than once a week though.

there are so many dates that you can go on without speding serious money.
 

glowstix

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give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
 

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Originally posted by glowstix
give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
Cute and Fairy-like
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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