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soulforge

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do I need to watch my back with this chick?

Only been seeing her two months, the sex is great, also we have things in common and we have a good laugh..

But sometimes she comes across as bieng ****y and will say some things that I find rude or a little disrespectful..


At the weekend she said something to pizz me off.. so I called her on it.. told her to calm down, and think about how you talk to me..


She was stopping at my house that night, she gave me the cold shoulder for about an hour, then she told me, that I was bieng insensitive to her feelings.. and I should treat her better, as she is a guest in my house..

She tried her best to blame and shame me.. make me feel like it was all my fault, without accepting any blame...

This is the second time she has behaved like this.. used shaming tactics, to make me look and feel bad about myself..

So far I have treated this girl pretty good, cooked for her, taken her out etc etc.. treated her well.. but feels like nothing is good enough for her..


She is now acting in different and distant towards me on whatsapp...

Also i met this girl on POF, so my trust in her is somewhat minimal

I, m thinking I should start bieng very careful with this one.. two arguments in the space of 2 months is not good
 

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soulforge said:
do I need to watch my back with this chick?

Only been seeing her two months, the sex is great, also we have things in common and we have a good laugh..

But sometimes she comes across as bieng ****y and will say some things that I find rude or a little disrespectful..


At the weekend she said something to pizz me off.. so I called her on it.. told her to calm down, and think about how you talk to me..


She was stopping at my house that night, she gave me the cold shoulder for about an hour, then she told me, that I was bieng insensitive to her feelings.. and I should treat her better, as she is a guest in my house..

She tried her best to blame and shame me.. make me feel like it was all my fault, without accepting any blame...

This is the second time she has behaved like this.. used shaming tactics, to make me look and feel bad about myself..

So far I have treated this girl pretty good, cooked for her, taken her out etc etc.. treated her well.. but feels like nothing is good enough for her..


She is now acting in different and distant towards me on whatsapp...

Also i met this girl on POF, so my trust in her is somewhat minimal

I, m thinking I should start bieng very careful with this one.. two arguments in the space of 2 months is not good
stop being a beta, don't put up with it. but you already did so it may be too late. get a new girl or have another girl on the side
 
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