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new girlfriend, how to keep her for a while?

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ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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try not to give her too much attention, if you do she'll just lose interest and break up with you
 

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Originally posted by snoop8
ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.
 

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Re: Re: new girlfriend, how to keep her for a while?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.

too late they already became good friends!!! :confused: wat should i do??? and also, how can i become a lil bit more romantic?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PEOPLE PLEASE!!! IN NEED URGENT HELP! RIGHT NOW, BOTH OF THEM WERE PLAYIN AROUND WIT ME!! THEY MADE ME BELIEVE THAT MY GIRLFRIEND WAS MAD AT ME AND I WAS TELLIN HER I WAS SORRY! AND AT THE END, BOTH OF THEM PLAN IT OUT JUST TO PLAY AROUND WIT ME! I NEED HELP ASAP! IN WAT TO DO SO THEYLL STOP BEING FRIENDS! CAUSE IM PRETTY SURE THEY WILL KEEP DOING THIS KIND OF STUFF TO ME!
 

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I am pretty sure you are screwed. I mean if you get rid of your ex, your current gf will get mad. Why did you say you were sorry. You didn't do anything. This makes her think she can just boss you around by being all emotional. I know. It has happened to me before. Just find someone else who is actually gf material.
 
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