"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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try not to give her too much attention, if you do she'll just lose interest and break up with you
 

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Originally posted by snoop8
ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.
 

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Re: Re: new girlfriend, how to keep her for a while?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.

too late they already became good friends!!! :confused: wat should i do??? and also, how can i become a lil bit more romantic?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PEOPLE PLEASE!!! IN NEED URGENT HELP! RIGHT NOW, BOTH OF THEM WERE PLAYIN AROUND WIT ME!! THEY MADE ME BELIEVE THAT MY GIRLFRIEND WAS MAD AT ME AND I WAS TELLIN HER I WAS SORRY! AND AT THE END, BOTH OF THEM PLAN IT OUT JUST TO PLAY AROUND WIT ME! I NEED HELP ASAP! IN WAT TO DO SO THEYLL STOP BEING FRIENDS! CAUSE IM PRETTY SURE THEY WILL KEEP DOING THIS KIND OF STUFF TO ME!
 

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I am pretty sure you are screwed. I mean if you get rid of your ex, your current gf will get mad. Why did you say you were sorry. You didn't do anything. This makes her think she can just boss you around by being all emotional. I know. It has happened to me before. Just find someone else who is actually gf material.
 
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