"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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new girlfriend, how to keep her for a while?

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ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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try not to give her too much attention, if you do she'll just lose interest and break up with you
 

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Originally posted by snoop8
ok now i got this new girlfriend, but theres a problem, she started talking wit my ex! lol so wat should i do? also, how can i keep her for a while? my last one i lasted like a month and thats it thanks
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.
 

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Re: Re: new girlfriend, how to keep her for a while?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Keep them apart at ALL cost. Dont ever let them interact if you can. Do what ever you did to get her+ sprinkle a little bit of that crap girls call romance on it and you should be golden.

too late they already became good friends!!! :confused: wat should i do??? and also, how can i become a lil bit more romantic?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PEOPLE PLEASE!!! IN NEED URGENT HELP! RIGHT NOW, BOTH OF THEM WERE PLAYIN AROUND WIT ME!! THEY MADE ME BELIEVE THAT MY GIRLFRIEND WAS MAD AT ME AND I WAS TELLIN HER I WAS SORRY! AND AT THE END, BOTH OF THEM PLAN IT OUT JUST TO PLAY AROUND WIT ME! I NEED HELP ASAP! IN WAT TO DO SO THEYLL STOP BEING FRIENDS! CAUSE IM PRETTY SURE THEY WILL KEEP DOING THIS KIND OF STUFF TO ME!
 

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I am pretty sure you are screwed. I mean if you get rid of your ex, your current gf will get mad. Why did you say you were sorry. You didn't do anything. This makes her think she can just boss you around by being all emotional. I know. It has happened to me before. Just find someone else who is actually gf material.
 
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