"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New Girl in class

coolguy676767

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Ok I would like to consider myself somewhat of a veteran of this site, and I have read all of the bible, learned and implemented many things from it. I feel like I know what I am doing, but at the moment I am just a bit unsure. I have no problem talking to girls, esptablishing kino and some mystery, as well as having a good sense of humor and timing. I never had a problem with the humor, but I used to be an AFC, so some tendencies still pop up here and there.

So now to the question,

I just met this girl in my first period class, and she is like a HB8.5, seriously and I have fairly tough standards. Well I have talked to her for a couple days now here and there, made her laugh quite a bit, talked to her about some things while still maintaining some mystery for now. I even did just very light kino, keep in mind I have only known her for about 4 days and where in class, so its only light kino. But I watch her body language and she seems open and has smiled on a occasion as she comes in a makes eye contact with me. So I know some of the signals are there. Now I want to go in for the number close and call.

1. I just want to know what is the appropriate length of time of knowing her before trying this.

2. Also what would be something you would say in this situation to not make it seem awkward that I am asking her to hang out/go out while not knowing her that much at all.

I would appretiate if someone could give me a very short diolouge example and not just say ask her. Just something so I can see what you mean, not like I am going to repeat it word for word.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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frisco

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Somthing i did in the past was get on the subject of movies movies that are out like in the big theater find out what movies she really wants to see and be like yah that looks good i would go see it but everyone i no already has seen it then be like hey why dont u give me your number we can go see it this weekend blah bahl then walla you got her number wait a couple of days 5 or so and call her by then you can see if she wants to go hang out do what ever and you dont neccesarily have to go to the movies
 

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Man you are too worried, if you got your sh1t together and youve already been talking to her for a while just go for it...I got this hb8's number in my 3rd period the 1st day I met her..we just had a normal conversation then toward the end of the period I was like "man its almost time to go, lemme get your number and Ill call you sometime." (as a statement, not a question) its kind of initiating that you want to continue the conversation but you cant because the bell is about to ring...its not that big a deal to number close, honestly
 
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