"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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New Girl, Different Problem, Really Need Help

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This is a difficult problem, how do I approach it:

Ok, first, the backround info. I met this girl about a week ago when she got hired at the same place I worked. I was C/F, and flirted with her and eventually got her phone number casually. She seemed to like me and my personality. From the first time she started working there, she is constantly staring at me and giving me lots of eye contact. She isn't even afraid when I stare back into her eyes, and she just smiles as I smile back during a prolonged stare ( like a game). I have kept mysterious ( I only called once during the week, and I passed her shyt test). She is very suggestive when I talk to her. Also, she returns my kino with her own kino and with a big smile/ giddyness, but she is a very shy person around most people and she will stand around and wait for me to initiate and end a conversation. Even when she leaves the front exit to work she turns all the way around to catch a parting glance. Lastly, she has been asking people about me, and asking questions like " Does he flirt with everybody?, etc." There is only ONE BIG PROBLEM : She has a freaking boyfriend. She didn't even mention him until I brought it up by asking if that was "her boyfriend on the phone" ( she was returning one of his calls as I was entering the employee lounge). She only got a weak " Yeah, I guess you could say that was my boyfriend sort of." Then, she doesn't bring him up the rest of the time, and she agrees to go with me to a movie tommorow night. Should I just try and make a move on her or should a wait it out? Youur opinions are GREATLY appreciated.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks very much.... not. I 'm not asking whether I should proceed or not ( because I am), but how I should proceed.
 

Grey Fox

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She has a boyfriend eh? Time to find a girl that doesn't have one. Please don't be stupid and try to mess with that, unless you want to open Pandora's box.(snicker) First her BF will be real mad at you and will find away to let you know that even if it takes him all year. Oh and second do you really want a girl to become your girlfriend when she was willing to cheat on her last boyfriend to be with you. Honestly think about that if you believe for one second that "She just did that for me." Please, please do not come back here screaming in 2 months, if that, ranting about how some slut cheated on you.

Go and find else, there are plenty hot ones out there, the quicker you know that the happier you will be much, much sooner.

-Grey Fox
 
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Trust me, I have more than one chick, but I've never seen a chick with this must IL in me when having a bf. I'd appreciate it if I cold get some helpful feedback on HOW to approach this situation rather than a flat out... MOVE ON.
 

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I THINK THEY ARE GIVING YOU HELPFUL FEEDBACK. For one she has a bf and two you work with her. Both can be big trouble. I dated someone I worked with and it wasnt that fun after it didnt work out. My advice is to stay away as well.

Regardless, if you must why don't you just play it cool. You know she has a boyfriend. If she is interested in you she will break it off with her bf.
 

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Dude, you play you pay. Let me tell you what yours truly did in all his brainiac glory:

I got involved with a married woman who I f***king worked with. Mind you, this little descent into hell is not over yet. I go to work every day, even after she saw fit to tell her husband just about everything that happened between us, and I live each agonizing moment at work watching as she tries to patch things up with her supposed "loser."

I hope your job is low paying and mindless; cause once the going gets tough, you are gonna have to bail. Unfortunately for me, my job is not easily replaceable, or I woulda been gone a long time ago. As it is, I'm stuck here. My option is to give up my good paying job and find something else which pays much less.

Just be mindful. I know you are charging into this little thing bullheaded and you aren't really listening to advice. I don't even know what you want us to say. You want to know how to approach this situation??? Just throw caution and logic to the wind cause you're riding on pure luck at this point ;)
 
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