jophil28
Master Don Juan
Dupe post.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
New GF seemed to good to be true.... than...
- Thread starter RepM
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Yes, the very same woman.Danger said:
After she had been to a few of those dinner parties with "arranged" dinner companions, she admitted that the same guy, Paul, was showing up regularly to be her escort.
So I dumped her.
Three weeks later she called and practically begged to meet with me to "talk" . Foolishly I did, and after 5 hours of listening to her in the coffee shop, I agreed to "try again" . (This was before my SS days)
WE went out to diinner that night ( to mark our reconciliation) and she dropped this mindfvck -
"Oh, when we were broken up I went to Cecilia's place and met Paul again for dinner.
After dinner we all got wasted- wine and MJ, and I passed out. Someone put me to bed, and in the morning I woke up with Paul.
I'm sure we didn't have sex but I am so glad that I can get really drunk and NOT just have sex with a man, automatically...."
WTF !
She told me that less than 12 hours after she initiated a reconciliation!
She made the point that this happened after I had broken off with her and we were apart.
I can't recall what I said in reply, but if I had known about BPD women back then I would have dropped her on the spot - permanently.
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RepM
Don Juan
Ok..... Skiing & partying was awesome 
Hooked up with some chicks. But no crazy ****. Was drinking ever afternoon. Great weak.
When I came back she was more happy than ever! She was unsecure about me partying there with all those girls.. She hoped I didnt found anyone (special) there and that we were over. Logical. She is more sure than ever about me/us. She bought some lingerie to celibrate my homecoming and was shy showing it on...
She cried later that night when she slept at my place, because she had a bad time during my absence but she didnt want to ruin my holiday with calling all the time. (green flag) She texted me 2/3 times a day with very good txt's. She was very relieved that I was finally home and liked her still a lot.
She wanted me to meet her family (second time ever), and said she loved me. I replied:' I like you a lot too
She has no crazy **** whatsoever. She isnt craving for attention. She wants to hang out with her GF's. She lets me do my business (sports, friend, study). So not clingy. She wants to sleep (stay for the night) with me all the time. Makes me nice breakfasts.. When we run into co-workers or friends they say she is shining (with a grin on her face)
She isnt overly emotional, hardly not jealous/ etc.
When a guy called her when Im away she tells me without hesitation. When someone txts her or calls her, she tells him that she is with her BF.
Of course we could say that she is a slut, she tries to catch me, she is 33 yrs old and no kids, that those are only words, etc.
I have to say that her actions are just as good if not better. I want a girl who is at least 30 yrs old with NO kids. I think I have to look very good but there some good (rare) ones.
Over the yrs im looking for bad traits/ habbits in every girl. Im almost paranoid. I think this one hasnt one so far..
Hooked up with some chicks. But no crazy ****. Was drinking ever afternoon. Great weak. When I came back she was more happy than ever! She was unsecure about me partying there with all those girls.. She hoped I didnt found anyone (special) there and that we were over. Logical. She is more sure than ever about me/us. She bought some lingerie to celibrate my homecoming and was shy showing it on...
She cried later that night when she slept at my place, because she had a bad time during my absence but she didnt want to ruin my holiday with calling all the time. (green flag) She texted me 2/3 times a day with very good txt's. She was very relieved that I was finally home and liked her still a lot.
She wanted me to meet her family (second time ever), and said she loved me. I replied:' I like you a lot too
She has no crazy **** whatsoever. She isnt craving for attention. She wants to hang out with her GF's. She lets me do my business (sports, friend, study). So not clingy. She wants to sleep (stay for the night) with me all the time. Makes me nice breakfasts.. When we run into co-workers or friends they say she is shining (with a grin on her face)
She isnt overly emotional, hardly not jealous/ etc.
When a guy called her when Im away she tells me without hesitation. When someone txts her or calls her, she tells him that she is with her BF.
Of course we could say that she is a slut, she tries to catch me, she is 33 yrs old and no kids, that those are only words, etc.
I have to say that her actions are just as good if not better. I want a girl who is at least 30 yrs old with NO kids. I think I have to look very good but there some good (rare) ones.
Over the yrs im looking for bad traits/ habbits in every girl. Im almost paranoid. I think this one hasnt one so far..
scorpio1138
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Well, thats good, but it could possibly be that you are heading up a peak with her.
See where you are at in 4 weeks. It might come crashing down.
I dealt with a clock-work pattern of this, I refer to as the roller-coaster, from a bpd woman.
I hope it does well for you, but be prepared...
See where you are at in 4 weeks. It might come crashing down.
I dealt with a clock-work pattern of this, I refer to as the roller-coaster, from a bpd woman.
I hope it does well for you, but be prepared...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Right on.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I think must women are used to dealing with guys who are clueless in their social/facebook circles so they can march whatever provisioning agenda they want when they feel like they've had their fill of drunken gangbangs. Remember sluts can be VERY good in bed...for an average AFC to meet a sexually available girl like this is like bread from heaven. You'd be surprised how many wealthy, fit dudes fall into the AFC mold and wife these girls simply because they spent their 20s building a business and are not really clued in to how women operate.