"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New GF likes to text a lot

Sgthaytham

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If she is texting more, that is because you are also accepting it too. You have to control the tempo. Just because she texts, you dont have to reply to every single text quickly.
It also gives women the opportunity to text again.

For instance. I accidentally threw a dart at my current date's finger. Long story.

A couple days later I send her "Is your finger out it's sling yet?"

A minute - I kid you not - later she's like "Hahaha nah it's recovered".

I didn't answer.

A few hours later she sends "So what are you plans for the weekend?".

I felt that her first response was not worth an answer from my part. I think she felt so too, so she doubled up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sgthaytham

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This is exactly what I do, I notice women get mad if I just disappear for a few days without warning.
That's because they know you're playing a game. Women aren't idiots you know.

Edit: This goes with what I said in my previous reply - a woman you're dating who has interest or high interest wants you're attention. If she's texting you, text back, ask her out.

If you don't on purpose, she'll assume you're playing games and ditch you. Don't play games.
 
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