"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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New GF likes to text a lot

Sgthaytham

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If she is texting more, that is because you are also accepting it too. You have to control the tempo. Just because she texts, you dont have to reply to every single text quickly.
It also gives women the opportunity to text again.

For instance. I accidentally threw a dart at my current date's finger. Long story.

A couple days later I send her "Is your finger out it's sling yet?"

A minute - I kid you not - later she's like "Hahaha nah it's recovered".

I didn't answer.

A few hours later she sends "So what are you plans for the weekend?".

I felt that her first response was not worth an answer from my part. I think she felt so too, so she doubled up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Sgthaytham

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This is exactly what I do, I notice women get mad if I just disappear for a few days without warning.
That's because they know you're playing a game. Women aren't idiots you know.

Edit: This goes with what I said in my previous reply - a woman you're dating who has interest or high interest wants you're attention. If she's texting you, text back, ask her out.

If you don't on purpose, she'll assume you're playing games and ditch you. Don't play games.
 
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