"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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New Gf, Help!

Fitch

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Hey guys. Thanks to this forum, lol, it gave me the experience i need to get this girl - hehe she is awesome.

She lives pretty far away - so we can't meet much; most likely just on weekends.

We have nice convos on the phone...last night we were talking and i got her wet - haha.

I dont know her much yet, met her through her friend. She sent me her pic and visa versa. I dont know what she thinks. She said "hot pix" and im doubting that (most likely due to my low self esteem, =/)

But even then, nothing seemed different. Everything seems to be all good :) however this one incident got me thinking...thus - TO the forums! =p

Shes a lifeguard, at the gym, and she has work today (sun) so she couldnt talk to me much yesturday (she had hw, then work at 630am). But ironically, i keep seeing her sign on (Aim) - at 10am...11am

I so ****ing emo...haha i care tooo much...
Err, help? advice and whatnot... :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LikRetsam

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Her thing is set to auto login with windows and her family is using the pc?
 

Patrick124

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you haven't met her, you've seen picturesw of her...and you're all strungup already?
Bro, grab you're balls n make sure they are there[not to be a **** lol]. Alright, you're the fawkin man bro. Don't worry if she gets on aim, **** you shouldn't talk to ehr on there. No more phoen convos that last logner than 5 minutes. You wanna get her wet?
MEET HER somewhere. have you boy setup a double date with his girl n u 2.
Don't talk to ehr for a full 48 hours, n if she calls you now, say you're busy n that you'llc all ehr later[which you will-not ok?lol].
Bootcamp is needed man. I strongly suggest you go through a bootcamp these next few weeks, it'll change your life. :)
 

Patrick124

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hmm someone point him in the direction, i never did one[considering it] but I have seen how they are great tools of improvement. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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