"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys. Thanks to this forum, lol, it gave me the experience i need to get this girl - hehe she is awesome.

She lives pretty far away - so we can't meet much; most likely just on weekends.

We have nice convos on the phone...last night we were talking and i got her wet - haha.

I dont know her much yet, met her through her friend. She sent me her pic and visa versa. I dont know what she thinks. She said "hot pix" and im doubting that (most likely due to my low self esteem, =/)

But even then, nothing seemed different. Everything seems to be all good :) however this one incident got me thinking...thus - TO the forums! =p

Shes a lifeguard, at the gym, and she has work today (sun) so she couldnt talk to me much yesturday (she had hw, then work at 630am). But ironically, i keep seeing her sign on (Aim) - at 10am...11am

I so ****ing emo...haha i care tooo much...
Err, help? advice and whatnot... :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her thing is set to auto login with windows and her family is using the pc?
 
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you haven't met her, you've seen picturesw of her...and you're all strungup already?
Bro, grab you're balls n make sure they are there[not to be a **** lol]. Alright, you're the fawkin man bro. Don't worry if she gets on aim, **** you shouldn't talk to ehr on there. No more phoen convos that last logner than 5 minutes. You wanna get her wet?
MEET HER somewhere. have you boy setup a double date with his girl n u 2.
Don't talk to ehr for a full 48 hours, n if she calls you now, say you're busy n that you'llc all ehr later[which you will-not ok?lol].
Bootcamp is needed man. I strongly suggest you go through a bootcamp these next few weeks, it'll change your life. :)
 
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hmm someone point him in the direction, i never did one[considering it] but I have seen how they are great tools of improvement. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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