Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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New Gf, Help!

Fitch

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Hey guys. Thanks to this forum, lol, it gave me the experience i need to get this girl - hehe she is awesome.

She lives pretty far away - so we can't meet much; most likely just on weekends.

We have nice convos on the phone...last night we were talking and i got her wet - haha.

I dont know her much yet, met her through her friend. She sent me her pic and visa versa. I dont know what she thinks. She said "hot pix" and im doubting that (most likely due to my low self esteem, =/)

But even then, nothing seemed different. Everything seems to be all good :) however this one incident got me thinking...thus - TO the forums! =p

Shes a lifeguard, at the gym, and she has work today (sun) so she couldnt talk to me much yesturday (she had hw, then work at 630am). But ironically, i keep seeing her sign on (Aim) - at 10am...11am

I so ****ing emo...haha i care tooo much...
Err, help? advice and whatnot... :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Her thing is set to auto login with windows and her family is using the pc?
 

Patrick124

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you haven't met her, you've seen picturesw of her...and you're all strungup already?
Bro, grab you're balls n make sure they are there[not to be a **** lol]. Alright, you're the fawkin man bro. Don't worry if she gets on aim, **** you shouldn't talk to ehr on there. No more phoen convos that last logner than 5 minutes. You wanna get her wet?
MEET HER somewhere. have you boy setup a double date with his girl n u 2.
Don't talk to ehr for a full 48 hours, n if she calls you now, say you're busy n that you'llc all ehr later[which you will-not ok?lol].
Bootcamp is needed man. I strongly suggest you go through a bootcamp these next few weeks, it'll change your life. :)
 

Patrick124

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hmm someone point him in the direction, i never did one[considering it] but I have seen how they are great tools of improvement. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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