"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New eyeglasses (pics)

ChalengeGuyFan

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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They both look good. I'm partial to the glasses in the first pic though.

Thank fvcking god you're not getting those ugly-ass Buddy Holly glasses everyone's wearing. So many attractive women make themselves so ugly by wearing those things.

BTW, that chick in the background in the second pic... I hope you got her number ;)
 

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I like the first link. I do like either pair over no glasses though. that style works for you man.
 

AlexTheGreat

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Glasses #2 look good, but I don't think you want silver. Black would look better I believe.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FIRST PAIR! You look better in the first pair!
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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After visiting two other shops I decided to go for the first pair :)
Thank you guys and gals!
 

CaptainJ

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Just get laser eye surgery man. Much cheaper in the long run, as you won't have to replace your glasses.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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I'd do that, but I'm too young at 21 to do it; the eyes are not completely matured.

Wearing glasses can really be a pain in the ass on occasions and contacts-only don't fit my lifestyle.
 
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