"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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New eyeglasses (pics)

ChalengeGuyFan

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova

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They both look good. I'm partial to the glasses in the first pic though.

Thank fvcking god you're not getting those ugly-ass Buddy Holly glasses everyone's wearing. So many attractive women make themselves so ugly by wearing those things.

BTW, that chick in the background in the second pic... I hope you got her number ;)
 

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I like the first link. I do like either pair over no glasses though. that style works for you man.
 

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Glasses #2 look good, but I don't think you want silver. Black would look better I believe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FIRST PAIR! You look better in the first pair!
 

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After visiting two other shops I decided to go for the first pair :)
Thank you guys and gals!
 

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Just get laser eye surgery man. Much cheaper in the long run, as you won't have to replace your glasses.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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I'd do that, but I'm too young at 21 to do it; the eyes are not completely matured.

Wearing glasses can really be a pain in the ass on occasions and contacts-only don't fit my lifestyle.
 
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