new dj in early confusion

[theoneandonly]

hey guys, im new here so i just thought id say hey to begin wiv. a few months ago I was a total afc but now I'm at least a mediocre dj and u can definitely tell by lookin at my social life. however, every now and again i get these bouts of AFCness which runs to the surface and i become an AFC again for a couple of minutes. It's like a Jekyll and Hyde thing.

Well here's my problem. I met this girl at my hair salon about a month ago. A couple of years older than me. We exchange numbers, and later she texts me first and we hav a bit of a text convo not much. Until a couple of days later she mentions in a text that she has a "bf". I'm assuming that means boyfriend. But it was just casual like "not been up 2 much my bf is over here rite now". Just real casual. And so right about here the afc in me comes rushing to the surface again. I totally chicken out, don't text her again. A couple of weeks have gone by. Please don't be so harsh on me for that... remember im new.

Anyway, yesterday my phone goes off and its from her asking how iv been. i debate whether or not I should text her back or not but then i settle on a yes (obv) but choose to wait a couple days so as not to sound too desperate. So I'm planning to text her today, but then I suddenly get another text from her saying basically the same stuff as before. I'm just confued about wat her intentions are and whether she wants a friend or "bf". I don't have a clue what's gone on her end and for all I know she may not have a boyfriend any more.

Little advice?

 

[SenorSuave]

Well, she obviously has an interest in you. After all, she is continuing to text you. However, I say you wait a few more days at least to reply. If she keeps coming back, you know you've got something good.

 

[theoneandonly]

You think I should wait still? Ok well if your sure, but if she doesn't come back again should I still reply to the one I got yesterday? I mean, if she has an interest, then I dont want to seem like I don't is all.

 

[Kiko-]

The BF bit was probably a shyt test to see how you would react. You obviously failed it, seeing as you chickened out.
See- 80% of girls with their boyfriends would text other guys if their bf was around. Unless the bf is a carefree dumbass.

Call her up, arrange to meet and work your magic.

 

[Long Duck Dong]

I would have to agree with these gents. yes it seems she has interest in you if she continues to text you. You should set up a date and see how things go. But, if she does have a boyfriend I would next her because (pretty much always) she wont leave him for you and you'll be chasing something u will never have.

 

[ryannath]

why wait so many days to text back? trying to be "sosuave" my friend? lol chicks will lose interest if you keep waiting so long to text back. good lord. quit trying to be "dj" and waiting so damn long.