"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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new college student

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smooth Player 056

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wow your really specific huh?



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Hey man! I'm a new college student too, gonna be fun. I have no tips as school has not started yet, but at orientation I already noticed the following things:
College girls are more friendly,
more mature
undoubtedly easier and more slu-tty (to me, not a good thing)
easier to approach and flirt with

My highschool absolutely SUCKED for women. We had like 10 hot girls in the whole school and most of them were involved in long term relationships for the whole dam-n time, so I didn't care to mess with them. I hope to God that I can get more mature girls in college as well. All the shi-t that was highschool, is no more. In highschool everyone knew each other for a long time and you had cliques and popularity contests, which dictated your success with girls there; well, that crap is gone for good. In college, where nobody knows anyone, everybody is more open and they are trying to meet new people just like you.... so the one thing I can say is to be sociable. The place is a chick paradise too, plenty to chose from. You're gonna like it, I'm gonna like it, everyone does.

Oh yeah, in highschool I made the mistake of not getting involved in more extra-curricular activities so I didn't reach my full potential with meeting women, so in college I am going to just be a lot more outgoing and do more things, just to get that extra edge.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
In highschool everyone knew each other for a long time and you had cliques and popularity contests, which dictated your success with girls there; well, that crap is gone for good. In college, where nobody knows anyone, everybody is more open and they are trying to meet new people just like you.... so the one thing I can say is to be sociable.
So true, college gives you a chance to start over and reinvent yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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