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New clothes?

KnockoutJM

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Hey everyone. I have a few questions on what clothes i should buy, i would be very grateful if you can offer me some advice, and ill give some background.

I'm 17 and a senior in a private high school. The high school was the worst thing i ever did, and wish i stayed in my public school with my friends. I just dont fit in with the kids at this school, but im almost done. In the fall i will be going off to college, and will need new clothes, and stuff.
At the moment, i have lost 55 lbs+ since november boxing, and now i'm in shape, and have a 5' 9''+ muscular build, i wear a medium and it shows off body w/o looking crazy tight.

Since this school has made me wear a uniform for the past 4 years, i havent bought too many clothes items since i began. I dont have too many friends in my school, and i pretty much go out in the only few things that fit from like 7th grade. (pathetic i know). So i do not really know where i should be shopping. Money is only a semi-issue, as in i work in a pretty lucrative job for my age (at nightclubs) but dont wanna be buying $100 pants.

So i was wondering if anyone can reccommend me any places to shop for clothes for a laid back type look, or a party-style look.
And can anyone reccommend me a type of sneaker to buy. Most times i look for an all white w/ some unique design like nike w/ graffitti swoosh. But i have a 14wide and its nearly impossible to find any unique footwear that looks decent.

thank you for taking the time to read this, and for the advice.
 

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Rock_Solid

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Honestly, head over to the stylelife forum, they have a section dedicated to fashion, I'm sure you can get some good tips over there.

And wow, 14wide shoe and your 5'9"! wow I'm the same height and i wear an 11 haha. Anyway if you can fit Puma's are usually a good choice and always look good.
 

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You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
 

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Buy a GQ magazine or men's magazine and check out the new summer styles.

OR take a female friend shopping with you... girls have great taste.
 

KnockoutJM

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thx

Thx for the tips

and
BluEyes said:
You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
yeah, i have just been working out a lot, probably my #1 hobby if you can call it that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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