"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New clothes?

KnockoutJM

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Hey everyone. I have a few questions on what clothes i should buy, i would be very grateful if you can offer me some advice, and ill give some background.

I'm 17 and a senior in a private high school. The high school was the worst thing i ever did, and wish i stayed in my public school with my friends. I just dont fit in with the kids at this school, but im almost done. In the fall i will be going off to college, and will need new clothes, and stuff.
At the moment, i have lost 55 lbs+ since november boxing, and now i'm in shape, and have a 5' 9''+ muscular build, i wear a medium and it shows off body w/o looking crazy tight.

Since this school has made me wear a uniform for the past 4 years, i havent bought too many clothes items since i began. I dont have too many friends in my school, and i pretty much go out in the only few things that fit from like 7th grade. (pathetic i know). So i do not really know where i should be shopping. Money is only a semi-issue, as in i work in a pretty lucrative job for my age (at nightclubs) but dont wanna be buying $100 pants.

So i was wondering if anyone can reccommend me any places to shop for clothes for a laid back type look, or a party-style look.
And can anyone reccommend me a type of sneaker to buy. Most times i look for an all white w/ some unique design like nike w/ graffitti swoosh. But i have a 14wide and its nearly impossible to find any unique footwear that looks decent.

thank you for taking the time to read this, and for the advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rock_Solid

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Honestly, head over to the stylelife forum, they have a section dedicated to fashion, I'm sure you can get some good tips over there.

And wow, 14wide shoe and your 5'9"! wow I'm the same height and i wear an 11 haha. Anyway if you can fit Puma's are usually a good choice and always look good.
 

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You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
 

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Buy a GQ magazine or men's magazine and check out the new summer styles.

OR take a female friend shopping with you... girls have great taste.
 

KnockoutJM

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thx

Thx for the tips

and
BluEyes said:
You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
yeah, i have just been working out a lot, probably my #1 hobby if you can call it that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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