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New clothes?

KnockoutJM

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Hey everyone. I have a few questions on what clothes i should buy, i would be very grateful if you can offer me some advice, and ill give some background.

I'm 17 and a senior in a private high school. The high school was the worst thing i ever did, and wish i stayed in my public school with my friends. I just dont fit in with the kids at this school, but im almost done. In the fall i will be going off to college, and will need new clothes, and stuff.
At the moment, i have lost 55 lbs+ since november boxing, and now i'm in shape, and have a 5' 9''+ muscular build, i wear a medium and it shows off body w/o looking crazy tight.

Since this school has made me wear a uniform for the past 4 years, i havent bought too many clothes items since i began. I dont have too many friends in my school, and i pretty much go out in the only few things that fit from like 7th grade. (pathetic i know). So i do not really know where i should be shopping. Money is only a semi-issue, as in i work in a pretty lucrative job for my age (at nightclubs) but dont wanna be buying $100 pants.

So i was wondering if anyone can reccommend me any places to shop for clothes for a laid back type look, or a party-style look.
And can anyone reccommend me a type of sneaker to buy. Most times i look for an all white w/ some unique design like nike w/ graffitti swoosh. But i have a 14wide and its nearly impossible to find any unique footwear that looks decent.

thank you for taking the time to read this, and for the advice.
 

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Rock_Solid

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Honestly, head over to the stylelife forum, they have a section dedicated to fashion, I'm sure you can get some good tips over there.

And wow, 14wide shoe and your 5'9"! wow I'm the same height and i wear an 11 haha. Anyway if you can fit Puma's are usually a good choice and always look good.
 

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You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
 

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Buy a GQ magazine or men's magazine and check out the new summer styles.

OR take a female friend shopping with you... girls have great taste.
 

KnockoutJM

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thx

Thx for the tips

and
BluEyes said:
You lost 55lbs in 4 months?
yeah, i have just been working out a lot, probably my #1 hobby if you can call it that.
 

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