"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good news since my break-up post.....

Met this girl in one of my classes. Good body language and conversation. I said we should get together for coffee and she practically just gave me her number(thrusday). Then when I saw her on Tuesday she chased me down after class and said "You didn't call!?" The thing was that I didn't say when I'd call her. I made a date with her later on.

We went out for coffee and had good convo.
After the first date with her as I'm walking her to her building she says, "Want to come in and talk, or something??" So I go up with her but her roomates are there so I split after about ten minutes.

We're going to dinner then the rock climbing wall tonight at the university gym. When I called her to make the date - she said she had an aerobics class that evening - but that she would skip it. Should be a fun time. I'm glad to meet someone new. I need to work on cold approaches though - I've tried several in the past few weeks but they just seem awkward and forced. I don't want to rely on classes to meet girls - especially since there aren't many girls in my classes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by FalconerRhine
Good news since my break-up post.....

Met this girl in one of my classes. Good body language and conversation. I said we should get together for coffee and she practically just gave me her number(thrusday). Then when I saw her on Tuesday she chased me down after class and said "You didn't call!?" The thing was that I didn't say when I'd call her. I made a date with her later on.

We went out for coffee and had good convo.
After the first date with her as I'm walking her to her building she says, "Want to come in and talk, or something??" So I go up with her but her roomates are there so I split after about ten minutes.

We're going to dinner then the rock climbing wall tonight at the university gym. When I called her to make the date - she said she had an aerobics class that evening - but that she would skip it. Should be a fun time. I'm glad to meet someone new. I need to work on cold approaches though - I've tried several in the past few weeks but they just seem awkward and forced. I don't want to rely on classes to meet girls - especially since there aren't many girls in my classes.
In case you missed it the first time around, let me make it perfectly obvious for you: SHE WANTS YOUR C#CK!

I'm not trying to make you nervous. Whatever you're doing you're playing it plenty smooth. I'm just telling you this because I don't want you coming back here a week later and saying, "Hey, remember the girl from THIS thread? Well all of a sudden she started becoming distant, having things to do all the time, I don't understand, blah blah".

You don't want to just jump on her now, but you might at least want to escalate the physical level of the encounter some (kissing/heavy petting isn't altogether out of place on the second date ;) ) It's OK to make her work for it, but don't make her wait TOO long without anything or she'll get frustrated and go elsewhere.
 

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I hooked up w/ her at the end of the date and grabbed her booty. She said its too bad that she has already made plans to cut out for the weekend....................:)
 

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"to cut out for the weekend"

what does that mean? she had plans?
 
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