"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New chick, new issues

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So my freind's girlfriend's freind said I was hot one night while i was at TGI Fridays. We never talked that night but she told my freind she wanted to hang out with me. So we never did but I finally got her number through her freind and took her out for sushi. This is one of the hottest chicks I've dated, if not the hottest (hb 8.5). So sushi is awkward because I'm all nervous, so conversation is not all that great. But somehow when dinner finishes, she invites me to watch a movie at her house. So I cruise up there, we start to get more and more comfortable with each other, start touching more, massaging, progressing well. So I go for the kiss and she wont open her mouth, it's like i was kissing her cheek. I say "is that how you kiss?" her: ya (jokingly). So a little later I leave, and she closes her eyes so i kiss her for a little, but her mouth is still shut. I say "you need to work on your kissing." her: no response.

Then last night, I watch a movie at her pad, and she makes a comment like "why did you brush your teeth? so you can open mouth kiss me?" me: I play it off like i was doing it for myself. For some reason I didn't go for a kiss during the date. But afterward kissed her for a little, and same deal, she doesn't open her mouth that much. I say "you're getting a little better." her: smiles

So my question is how do I get her to makeout with me fully? I think we are comfortable with each other because we are always touching each other/cuddling. My freind says she is kinda a slut, so I feel like I should be progressing faster. She's been texting me wanting to hang, so she's definitely down. I want to date this chick, not just **** her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
So my question is how do I get her to makeout with me fully? I think we are comfortable with each other because we are always touching each other/cuddling. My freind says she is kinda a slut, so I feel like I should be progressing faster. She's been texting me wanting to hang, so she's definitely down. I want to date this chick, not just **** her.
This has to be one of the weirdest things I've ever read. My first piece of advice would be to stop dating 13 year olds.

Just kidding, but seriously...what kind of adult woman can't open her mouth to kiss a guy? And you're talking about "dating her, not f**king her". I can totally see why you hold her to such high standards...She sounds like a F'king wacko.

It's one thing to escalate from make-out to sex. It's a completely different thing to escalate from kissing to "open-mouth kissing"....
 
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I'm 22, she's 21. The only thing I could think of is that I called her out on it, so maybe she's trying to tease me and make me earn it. I have no idea...
 
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