She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This and all the responses sounds like a blue pill whine fest.Suspens said:Yeah, that's nothing to be proud of. You just lack character, you are desperate and have no respect for other men.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So in the military you might end up sharing a "girl" because there just aren't enough to go around? So that would be kosher in that particular circumstance?GS750 said:These days, I avoid girls who have boyfriends. Not interested in sneaking around with her, fvcking her, flirting with her, or even really talking to her. If she's gonna cheat let her use some other guy to do it with. It's not a morailty thing with me, unless he's a military guy or I know him, I'm just not interested.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Me too. They end up tagging everything that moves when he goes to war.GS750 said:What I was saying is that if I met some girl who was intent on cheating and her bf or husband is away at war or whatever, I'd avoid her.
That's not how it works. I don't go hunting for other men's women.. but if one comes onto me and I find her attractive I will f*ck her. As long as she isn't dating a friend or family member. If its some dude I don't know then I don't really give a sh!t. Sorry.Suspens said:^ gtfo douchebag. So you enjoy licking someone else's cvm out of a hoe's rectum?
Lurking around like a hopeless hobo and waiting for opportunities to bang a low quality cheating trash is a sign of desperation, not someone with tight game and red-pill overdose.
Poon King said:That's not how it works. I don't go hunting for other men's women.. but if one comes onto me and I find her attractive I will f*ck her. As long as she isn't dating a friend or family member. If its some dude I don't know then I don't really give a sh!t. Sorry.
If you commit to a hoe... don't blame a guy for acting like a guy when you're hoe cheats. :crackup:
What some of these morons in this thread don't get is they are already sharing a hole with another c0ck if their woman isn't loyal. :crackup:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is what video games do to youyannick43 said:I must have misread, while sipping 2 sips of my green tea, i know i should have only sip one but i like to live dangerously.
On another note saint rows the third is really killing it.......:yawn: :woo: :box:
Hookas and hoes ain't fun for bros.Ruler said:Better than being able to not brag about banging no hoes![]()
Come on bro, if a ridiculously hot girl came to you and said "I am not happy in my relationship, you turn me on, I want to have sex with you." You would reply "No, I have character and I'm not desperate and have respect for your boyfriend who I've never and probably wishes me and every guy go to hell."Suspens said:Yeah, that's nothing to be proud of. You just lack character, you are desperate and have no respect for other men.