"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
New bragging trend: "she cheats on her boyfriend with me"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Also, you never know what a guy might do if he finds out. I've seen guys get hurt very badly because they fooled around with the wrong woman.
Also, a woman with a boyfriend probably had sex with him today. Remember that when you go down on her.
This and all the responses sounds like a blue pill whine fest.Suspens said:
Men need to learn not to commit to trashy women in the first place. If you're dumb enough (and desperate enough) to commit to a hoe bag.. why is that my problem? :crackup:
The b!tch doesn't respect her relationship OR her man. You are doing him a favor by opening his eyes to the fact that is girl is a hoe. And if he gets mad at YOU instead of the girl.. then he's an idiot.
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Lurking around like a hopeless hobo and waiting for opportunities to bang a low quality cheating trash is a sign of desperation, not someone with tight game and red-pill overdose.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So in the military you might end up sharing a "girl" because there just aren't enough to go around? So that would be kosher in that particular circumstance?GS750 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Me too. They end up tagging everything that moves when he goes to war.GS750 said:
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That's not how it works. I don't go hunting for other men's women.. but if one comes onto me and I find her attractive I will f*ck her. As long as she isn't dating a friend or family member. If its some dude I don't know then I don't really give a sh!t. Sorry.Suspens said:
If you commit to a hoe... don't blame a guy for acting like a guy when you're hoe cheats. :crackup:
What some of these morons in this thread don't get is they are already sharing a hole with another c0ck if their woman isn't loyal. :crackup:
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Poon King said:
/thread.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Come on bro, if a ridiculously hot girl came to you and said "I am not happy in my relationship, you turn me on, I want to have sex with you." You would reply "No, I have character and I'm not desperate and have respect for your boyfriend who I've never and probably wishes me and every guy go to hell."Suspens said:
You guys are too moral up in here, its like you don't watch the news or haven't been through life. You think people are this moral and give a f about you? Most people want you wiped off the earth unless you can make money for them.
If it's legal and you protect yourself at all times, go for it.