Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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NEW Bootcamp Starting Friday 4/9 - Competition!

ENIGMA16

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The deadline for participating in this bootcamp is Friday, April 9th. Please be sure to PM me before then if you are interested in participating!!!

Alright, so there's been some interest in starting up a new bootcamp recently, and since I'm only a week into my own personal one I figured I'd start over and we'll get a big group one going.

However, this bootcamp is going to be in a competition format. Because we are all competitive by our very nature, it should provide us all with an additional incentive to get out there and kick everyone else's ass!

Rules
The rules are simple. For each week of the boot camp you are given a certain amount of tasks to complete (i.e. "Greet 50 people"). At the end of the week I will tally up who has the most of that given task and post the results in this OP for each week. Then, I will give everyone points based on their standings. The point amounts will be entirely dependent upon how many participants we have in the game. I will also post the overall rankings in this post.

Also, the only complicated rule that I have is that if you go further than you are required by the task in terms of what you do, it will only count as a normal task. For example, if the weekly task is to greet 50 people, and you strike up a conversation and get a number, this will only count as one greeting. This is because I want to retain the bootcamp style and don't want a free-for-all where everyone just goes all out and does whatever, mainly so that those that are having a harder time don't fall too far behind.

Finally, remember that we're doing this based on the honor system, and that if you lie you're not only ruining the fun for everyone else but also deceiving yourself and not getting anywhere in terms of your own personal development. Plus, there is no real prize for winning aside from bragging rights.

If this takes off I might make a leaderboards thread where weekly records are recorded, but that's way in the future.

Here is the DJ Bootcamp.

Please PM me before Friday if you are interested in participating in this. Friday will be the official start of this bootcamp (Day 1 of Week 1).


Participants:
JLay87
crossboss
Cure
Blind_Fury
F!DELITY
Donnie Darko
HolyG
Scion
Forty0ztoFreedom
2crudedudes
ToBeTheBest
VDot
Hikapo
If Sixth I Will
Irs88
chese12
master-p
Exhumed
Tide
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'll try it. Although I may not be able to keep up with some of the guys in the later weeks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm in
 

ENIGMA16

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Awesome! I had absolutely no idea this many people were interested! This should be a lot of fun. :cool:
 

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count me in...

I've be putting this off and i see a perfect opportunity to get started
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've finished this bootcamp twice now.
What do people hope to gain that they can't already get from a thriving social circle I wonder.

Honestly, why would you want to get a stranger's number when you could get the number of a girl you already know to be worth the time :cool:.
 

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JLay87 said:
Awesome! I had absolutely no idea this many people were interested! This should be a lot of fun. :cool:
Sign up a good number. 70% will be gone come week 2, 80% during week 2 and 90% by week 3 ;).
 

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Accension said:
Sign up a good number. 70% will be gone come week 2, 80% during week 2 and 90% by week 3 .
We'll see about that. I've seen a lot of these posters around before, which is a lot different compared to the "Boot Camps" I've seen in the past since I've joined this forum that were comprised mostly of new posters and Forum jockies. I think we'll get a decent amount of people past week 3 before we see a lot of people dropping off.

Plus I'm going to bug the hell out of everybody that falls behind or gets lazy. :cool:

I've finished this bootcamp twice now.
What do people hope to gain that they can't already get from a thriving social circle I wonder.

Honestly, why would you want to get a stranger's number when you could get the number of a girl you already know to be worth the time .
Building up a thriving social circle requires the ability to talk to strangers and interact with people you don't know. Also, it's about more than getting the girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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in!!!
 

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my first day on the forum.
lets give it a shot and take a change to something hot:p
 

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i cant pm

sign me in for the bootcamp plz

"way to go young brotha, getting paid getting paid"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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