"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
oh shut up zappa..... Were all slaves to food and water....
You can't ever deny that. if the united states were to go under we would all migrate to other countries for food and water and forget about our dreams .
desire is suffering
we are born into misery...
if your living in the united states and you desire you will suffer...
It takes years and years to make people happy its called searching for self or self actualization. Not an easy feat by any means
Originally posted by Frank Zappa If there was any gold in the past 10 posts, this was all I could find. Anyway, I'm all about this, and this is truly zen to me. You live life the way you want to, and don't let anybody pave out a path for you. There are things I want to do that have the potential of not making a lot of money, like become a teacher or play bluegrass. But do what makes you happy, not your parents and find a woman that complements that. This thread is over. ~Zappa
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I an, and the wisdom to know the difference"
Those two idiots can't be reached by me or anyone. Jake wants to masterbate on the internet his hatred of whites...zen is just a plain old idiot.
I think C.S. Lewis said:
"We must pictue Hell as a state where everyone is perpetually concerned about his own dignity and advancement, where everyone has a grievance, where everyone lives the deadly serious passions of envy, self-importance, and resentment."
He should come to sosuave and read some of jakes posts.
Tell those 2 idiots I'm still waiting for their pictures and any proof that anybody on this network should even be listening to them (jake).
Originally posted by naturalzen oh shut up zappa..... Were all slaves to food and water....
You can't ever deny that. if the united states were to go under we would all migrate to other countries for food and water and forget about our dreams .
desire is suffering
we are born into misery...
if your living in the united states and you desire you will suffer...
It takes years and years to make people happy its called searching for self or self actualization. Not an easy feat by any means
No it's not over yet...I took a break to laugh about you 2 idiots with my buddy down in Oakland. He read some of your posts earlier and just shook his head....He is white and said yes he can see how you hate his race and other races...
It was him who reminded me of the kid who was on the movie set Manny or DJ streak in the bay and how he was successful with women...
Instead of leading this kid down the same path you follow why don't you show him a better way...forget the racist hatred dude...
i mean playa ... you should know about the truths you've done everything else in life I'm surprised you haven't told us you walked besides buddha himself to gain enlightenment like a zenmaster that you are and all .. You save helpless souls from the grips of virginity and you make don juan look like a schooled poser. I mean **** im sorry for interfering with your almighty intelligence pardon me so.
No the jokes on you...didn't you whine about me earlier about quoting other people?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Natural Zen, use paragraphs, for chrissakes. And Playa supreme, there is NOTHING supreme about you now, as far as I'm concerned. You're trash, dude - not an ounce of class in that big butt of yours. Seriously....
Well boys it's been fun...but I do have a life other than mary palmer and her 5 helpers...
So don't forget to wash your hands afterwards.
Sorry I have company coming over now and a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do...I guess you 2 idiots wouldn't know anything about that...
Oh try not to fall in love with each other...I really hate that gay shyt on a Mens forum.
Sorry white chicks don't dig you two. I think Iggy made a point on that...but so what just live with it...you can't have everything in this world according to idiot or dumb # 1. And I wont even start with dumber #2 Jakey
Originally posted by jakethasnake Natural Zen, use paragraphs, for chrissakes. And Playa supreme, there is NOTHING supreme about you now, as far as I'm concerned. You're trash, dude - not an ounce of class in that big butt of yours. Seriously....
stop fantasizing about the size of my ass...I had to say that before I left. yeah I got a black mans butt and dyck too...something you will never understand! Isn't this a picture of your momma in front of me in the nightclub picture:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
what I dont understand is if you put player in prison hes ****ing anything that walks. I guess you are a player since your banging broads that make the virgin mary look like a slut lol
WHEN.... ARE.... YOU .... GOING ..... TO ..... LEAVE?
OMG.
Stop trying to validate yourself to us. No one that is in this thread respects you bro. If you want respect, you've failed tragically (is that not evident?).
stop pming played out supremely.. Let me guess you learned a new martial art today ?Oh really you invented the Tv? Or no how bout you actually were the first black man to land on mars... what you screwed halle barry because she flew you on her private jet to her pad because shes in awe of you just like we all are lol lol...
You are in madison? I live in milwaukee -- I am going to madison this saturday in about 36 hours -- we should hang out and pimp some white hos.
I agree with your thread --- i know your agony bro - i lived in wisconsin all my life --- white girls here rather be with white dorky or ugly white guys than a good looking strong non-white male. In Milwaukee however you do have white girls that like to eat the forbidden fruit (i.e. black man) and usually skip over asians or hispanics. But alot of them are fat ones that were rejected by their own white men and some of them are mega-wh@res who like 6'3" black penis ---- this shyt infuriates alot of white guys but the brothers in wisconsin are just too big for them to pick a fight - so they pick on asians!
What you say is 100% true -- it is the same in milwaukee!!! and actually throughout the USA. I live here and went through what you went through -- but i don't mind because i am not attracted to white women -- she has to be above a hb9 and in wisconsin there aint too many.
yeah we should puerto rican lover..... I never venture to milwaukee much because of the black people down there lol... they scare me lol haha. kidding aside yeah man it would be cool to meet a don juan here and yes I am who I say I am unlike played out supremely. I do know a cool place on the west side of madison that is a hip bar restaurant... I have a couple white friends that are down to hang out too.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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