SeymourCake
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
New Art of Maniless regarding Red Flags in relationships
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
1) She's a self proclaimed drama queen
2) She's a flake
3) She treats the waiter like crap
4) She has a bad relationship with her family
5) She expects to be treated like a princess
6) She says all her exes are jerks
7) She's not flexible
8) She guilts you for spending time with friends
9) You argue all the time
10) You can't stand her friends
11) She's violent
12) You don't share core values or life goals
13) She's stingy with appreciation
14) She never apologizes
2) She's a flake
3) She treats the waiter like crap
4) She has a bad relationship with her family
5) She expects to be treated like a princess
6) She says all her exes are jerks
7) She's not flexible
8) She guilts you for spending time with friends
9) You argue all the time
10) You can't stand her friends
11) She's violent
12) You don't share core values or life goals
13) She's stingy with appreciation
14) She never apologizes
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YawataNoKami
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Single mom with multiples womb turds.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
old_skoolr
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This is brilliant, why is this not being pushed to newer members of this forum??
To add another:
The amount of time shes been besties with her best friend. I know alot of BPD who change best friends after 1-2 years, coz they end up fighting with their previous friends.
To add another:
The amount of time shes been besties with her best friend. I know alot of BPD who change best friends after 1-2 years, coz they end up fighting with their previous friends.
logicallefty
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^^this... +1
As has been said repeatedly on this site. They all have issues, it's just a matter of finding one you can tolerate. If you want on with that doesn't have at least some of what's listed, get a s3x robot...
SeymourCake
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You bring up a good point. If she's unable to maintain a friendship between her friends, then what makes you think she's able to maintain a relationship with you?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Desdinova
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It's in the DJ Bible