"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Art of Maniless regarding Red Flags in relationships

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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1) She's a self proclaimed drama queen
2) She's a flake
3) She treats the waiter like crap
4) She has a bad relationship with her family
5) She expects to be treated like a princess
6) She says all her exes are jerks
7) She's not flexible
8) She guilts you for spending time with friends
9) You argue all the time
10) You can't stand her friends
11) She's violent
12) You don't share core values or life goals
13) She's stingy with appreciation
14) She never apologizes
 
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Core values wanting to be treated like a princess and treating others like crap are big ones imo
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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there are so many red flags...from small to huge...that if we actually filter that much...we wouldnt have any women to chose from.

But of course there are a few ones that cannot be ignored, for your own good.
 

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This is brilliant, why is this not being pushed to newer members of this forum??

To add another:

The amount of time shes been besties with her best friend. I know alot of BPD who change best friends after 1-2 years, coz they end up fighting with their previous friends.
 

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16) She submits to everyone in the room (while blindfolded).
 

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there are so many red flags...from small to huge...that if we actually filter that much...we wouldnt have any women to chose from.

But of course there are a few ones that cannot be ignored, for your own good.
^^this... +1

As has been said repeatedly on this site. They all have issues, it's just a matter of finding one you can tolerate. If you want on with that doesn't have at least some of what's listed, get a s3x robot...
 

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This is brilliant, why is this not being pushed to newer members of this forum??

To add another:

The amount of time shes been besties with her best friend. I know alot of BPD who change best friends after 1-2 years, coz they end up fighting with their previous friends.
You bring up a good point. If she's unable to maintain a friendship between her friends, then what makes you think she's able to maintain a relationship with you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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