"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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New 3 Day Split - Critque Please

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All exercises will (hopefully) be within the 4 - 6 rep range.

2 minutes rest between each set.



DAY 1 - LEGS & SHOULDERS

3 x Squats

3 x Stiff Leg Deads

3 x Calve Raises

3 x Military Press

3 x Side Lat Raises


DAY 2 - BACK & CHEST

2 x Deadlifts

3 x Bent Rows

3 x Wide Grip Pull-Ups

3 x Wide Grip Bench

3 x Incline Press (with barbell - dont have heavy enough dumbs)



DAY 3 - TRICEPS & BICEPS

3 x Dips (weighted if necessary)

3 x Close Bench Press

2 x Skullcrushers

3 x Hammer Curls

3 x EZ Curls/Barbell Curls


This ok? Thanks guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmm, i think you should change your split. There arnt enough leg excercises first of all, and doing chest and back on the same day is a bit overkill. I don't know how you will be able to do strong bench presses after a heavy set of deads. I would put legs on its own day, chest - shoulders - tris, on one day, and back - biceps on another day. Thats what i do atm and it works great. I would also add a few more excercises, specially for legs.
 

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or....
Day1:Chest + bis
Day2:Legs + shoulders
Day3:Back + tris
 

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I think it looks very good. training opposite muscles like that. Semags routine looks exactly like mine. It works very well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes.semag's workout is quite ideal for me..btw, i have read somewhere not to train your chest and triceps...as most chest exercises involves triceps...n u may overtrain urs triceps if u do chest+triceps on same dae...
 

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i have read somewhere not to train your chest and triceps...as most chest exercises involves triceps
On the contrary, that IS why many people say to train chest and tris. It'll allow you to go straight into your tri workout without warming up because they've been auxillary muscles on all the exercises you do for chest.

However, I don't believe that I can blast my arm muscles as hard after I've done a bunch of chest exercise, and I can't work my chest fully if I've done triceps first. I believe Lifeforce found the same thing I did, that your arms can be trained more per week, in essence, and so doing the opposing arm muscles with chest and back will allow them to be hit on two separate days.
 

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thanks for the replies guys,

i hav done legs - back&bicep - tri/chest/shoulders for the past seven months so i thought id mix up the muscle groups a bit.

anyway ill try it and see

Day1:Chest + bis Day2:Legs + shoulders
Day3:Back + tris
this is one id like to try also...
 

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Crap, forgot to add in SHRUGS somewhere, shoould i add these in on shoulder day?

thanks.
 

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Crap, forgot to add in SHRUGS somewhere, shoould i add these in on shoulder day?
2 options here:

A) throw them in on shoulder day. DB or barbell shrugs are fine.

B) My personal fav, On back day, modify your deadlifts slightly. Deadlift the weight up to your standing position, and at the end of each deadlift rep, do a shrug. The weight should be very similar for both exercises, it also will save you time. Hope that helps.

-=Semag=-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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