"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New 3 Day Split - Critque Please

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All exercises will (hopefully) be within the 4 - 6 rep range.

2 minutes rest between each set.



DAY 1 - LEGS & SHOULDERS

3 x Squats

3 x Stiff Leg Deads

3 x Calve Raises

3 x Military Press

3 x Side Lat Raises


DAY 2 - BACK & CHEST

2 x Deadlifts

3 x Bent Rows

3 x Wide Grip Pull-Ups

3 x Wide Grip Bench

3 x Incline Press (with barbell - dont have heavy enough dumbs)



DAY 3 - TRICEPS & BICEPS

3 x Dips (weighted if necessary)

3 x Close Bench Press

2 x Skullcrushers

3 x Hammer Curls

3 x EZ Curls/Barbell Curls


This ok? Thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm, i think you should change your split. There arnt enough leg excercises first of all, and doing chest and back on the same day is a bit overkill. I don't know how you will be able to do strong bench presses after a heavy set of deads. I would put legs on its own day, chest - shoulders - tris, on one day, and back - biceps on another day. Thats what i do atm and it works great. I would also add a few more excercises, specially for legs.
 

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or....
Day1:Chest + bis
Day2:Legs + shoulders
Day3:Back + tris
 

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I think it looks very good. training opposite muscles like that. Semags routine looks exactly like mine. It works very well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes.semag's workout is quite ideal for me..btw, i have read somewhere not to train your chest and triceps...as most chest exercises involves triceps...n u may overtrain urs triceps if u do chest+triceps on same dae...
 

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i have read somewhere not to train your chest and triceps...as most chest exercises involves triceps
On the contrary, that IS why many people say to train chest and tris. It'll allow you to go straight into your tri workout without warming up because they've been auxillary muscles on all the exercises you do for chest.

However, I don't believe that I can blast my arm muscles as hard after I've done a bunch of chest exercise, and I can't work my chest fully if I've done triceps first. I believe Lifeforce found the same thing I did, that your arms can be trained more per week, in essence, and so doing the opposing arm muscles with chest and back will allow them to be hit on two separate days.
 

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thanks for the replies guys,

i hav done legs - back&bicep - tri/chest/shoulders for the past seven months so i thought id mix up the muscle groups a bit.

anyway ill try it and see

Day1:Chest + bis Day2:Legs + shoulders
Day3:Back + tris
this is one id like to try also...
 

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Crap, forgot to add in SHRUGS somewhere, shoould i add these in on shoulder day?

thanks.
 

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Crap, forgot to add in SHRUGS somewhere, shoould i add these in on shoulder day?
2 options here:

A) throw them in on shoulder day. DB or barbell shrugs are fine.

B) My personal fav, On back day, modify your deadlifts slightly. Deadlift the weight up to your standing position, and at the end of each deadlift rep, do a shrug. The weight should be very similar for both exercises, it also will save you time. Hope that helps.

-=Semag=-
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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