"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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never tried bowling and minigolf is out

IamtheAlphamale

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I'm gonna set up some date tomorrow.. hows bowling for first dates? Met the girl in some bar talked to her for about 20 min she never stopped smiling and laughing got number she kept laughing at litterally everything I said felt her up exited. I wanted to check out this new mini golf place thats openned up but thats a no go. Chick who I may decide to start dating apparently works there. And I completely stumbled onto this info randomly. Good thing to that woulda been the end game with her. So hows bowling? Gonna call tomorrow gimme some quick feedback. Oh theres also some new rock climbing place here which I also wanted to check out. Lately I've been saying **** all the techniques.. I may just pay.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In bowling you can kino her more than in rock climbing. But on the other hand if you suck at bowling you can come across as a fool, maybe.
 

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Definately bowling over rock climbing.

Personally though, I think a first date should be something non-commited. Meet at a starbucks or something, and if things go well, have plans to go from there.

Maybe it's corny, but for a second date, I find amusement park (Six Flags) work great. Get that pseudo adrenaline rush to go through her and she's done...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
The girl at mini-golf would probably be more likely to date you if she saw you out with another girl.
Word.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Problem with that is. I learned from her friend who she would definately mention it to that I was there with some chick. Therefore the line is too thin and its obvious I did it on purpose. Although I'm pretty sure I wont go for the mini golf chick anyways. Although shes way hotter she has massive downers I don't like. I got her if I want her though anyways... makes it tempting.. gotta use restraint.
 
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