"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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never tried bowling and minigolf is out

IamtheAlphamale

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I'm gonna set up some date tomorrow.. hows bowling for first dates? Met the girl in some bar talked to her for about 20 min she never stopped smiling and laughing got number she kept laughing at litterally everything I said felt her up exited. I wanted to check out this new mini golf place thats openned up but thats a no go. Chick who I may decide to start dating apparently works there. And I completely stumbled onto this info randomly. Good thing to that woulda been the end game with her. So hows bowling? Gonna call tomorrow gimme some quick feedback. Oh theres also some new rock climbing place here which I also wanted to check out. Lately I've been saying **** all the techniques.. I may just pay.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In bowling you can kino her more than in rock climbing. But on the other hand if you suck at bowling you can come across as a fool, maybe.
 

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Definately bowling over rock climbing.

Personally though, I think a first date should be something non-commited. Meet at a starbucks or something, and if things go well, have plans to go from there.

Maybe it's corny, but for a second date, I find amusement park (Six Flags) work great. Get that pseudo adrenaline rush to go through her and she's done...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
The girl at mini-golf would probably be more likely to date you if she saw you out with another girl.
Word.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Problem with that is. I learned from her friend who she would definately mention it to that I was there with some chick. Therefore the line is too thin and its obvious I did it on purpose. Although I'm pretty sure I wont go for the mini golf chick anyways. Although shes way hotter she has massive downers I don't like. I got her if I want her though anyways... makes it tempting.. gotta use restraint.
 
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