"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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never tried bowling and minigolf is out

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I'm gonna set up some date tomorrow.. hows bowling for first dates? Met the girl in some bar talked to her for about 20 min she never stopped smiling and laughing got number she kept laughing at litterally everything I said felt her up exited. I wanted to check out this new mini golf place thats openned up but thats a no go. Chick who I may decide to start dating apparently works there. And I completely stumbled onto this info randomly. Good thing to that woulda been the end game with her. So hows bowling? Gonna call tomorrow gimme some quick feedback. Oh theres also some new rock climbing place here which I also wanted to check out. Lately I've been saying **** all the techniques.. I may just pay.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In bowling you can kino her more than in rock climbing. But on the other hand if you suck at bowling you can come across as a fool, maybe.
 
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Definately bowling over rock climbing.

Personally though, I think a first date should be something non-commited. Meet at a starbucks or something, and if things go well, have plans to go from there.

Maybe it's corny, but for a second date, I find amusement park (Six Flags) work great. Get that pseudo adrenaline rush to go through her and she's done...
 
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Bible_Belt said:
The girl at mini-golf would probably be more likely to date you if she saw you out with another girl.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problem with that is. I learned from her friend who she would definately mention it to that I was there with some chick. Therefore the line is too thin and its obvious I did it on purpose. Although I'm pretty sure I wont go for the mini golf chick anyways. Although shes way hotter she has massive downers I don't like. I got her if I want her though anyways... makes it tempting.. gotta use restraint.
 
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