"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Never Say...

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Don Juan
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Some things to never say and their better alternatives.

“I’m sorry.” If you genuinely did screw up then simply say “My mistake.” or “I’ll fix it.” If you piss her off and then beg her to forgive you then you’ll only draw her contempt along with her wrath.

“What’s wrong?” How many of us have asked this one and gotten a “Nothing I’m fine?” If she’s throwing a *****fit for no reason then man up and ask “What the hell is wrong with you?” Show that you’re dominant and that you don’t approve of her behavior. (Disclaimer: If she’s in obvious real anguish be gentler.)

“Yes you do look horrible in that dress.” Don’t say this unless of course you enjoy sleeping on the couch. “I don’t know let me see how you look without it on.” is a response with clear possible benefits ;)

“I love you.” Many of us have jumped the gun on this one and shot ourselves in the ass. Simply say “I’m glad you’re here with me” or any other possible variation. Hold her close and look deeply into her eyes and she’ll get the real message without being scared off.

Lets hear what you guys got.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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