"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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never saw it coming

FoxtrotUniformKilo

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I don't remember my old user name I haven't been here in a while. But why is it guys can just be so attached to a girl knowing she is going to **** you over. I used to just do the whole random girls at parties but I don't know how to deal with a ***** playing games and ****. I know I need to just drop the ***** but I suppose I just need to vent on how ****ing stupid my girl is. Nothing but games. Trying to make me feel like our problems are my fault. Worse part is if I end it hard I know she will slash my tires or break my windows out even though I am on base. :box: :nervous:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay I was being a drama queen. I have calmed down a little. The girl I am sorta with is 4 years older then me but so immature it seems. She said she wanted to get married and all this **** but now shes being a complete *****. Egh What would you guys do, just back off for a while and not talk to her until she calls? Gah I guess a lot changes after moving in with someone. It sucks. We always fight when one of us is deployed or out of town... Maybe I am just insecure , I have just been ****ed over so many times in the past, i dont know how to un-fvck myself...
 

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I think of it this way.

If she ain't willing to spend years and YEARS with you to know for sure you'll last, then she won't last.
 
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