"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't remember my old user name I haven't been here in a while. But why is it guys can just be so attached to a girl knowing she is going to **** you over. I used to just do the whole random girls at parties but I don't know how to deal with a ***** playing games and ****. I know I need to just drop the ***** but I suppose I just need to vent on how ****ing stupid my girl is. Nothing but games. Trying to make me feel like our problems are my fault. Worse part is if I end it hard I know she will slash my tires or break my windows out even though I am on base. :box: :nervous:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay I was being a drama queen. I have calmed down a little. The girl I am sorta with is 4 years older then me but so immature it seems. She said she wanted to get married and all this **** but now shes being a complete *****. Egh What would you guys do, just back off for a while and not talk to her until she calls? Gah I guess a lot changes after moving in with someone. It sucks. We always fight when one of us is deployed or out of town... Maybe I am just insecure , I have just been ****ed over so many times in the past, i dont know how to un-fvck myself...
 
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I think of it this way.

If she ain't willing to spend years and YEARS with you to know for sure you'll last, then she won't last.
 
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