"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't remember my old user name I haven't been here in a while. But why is it guys can just be so attached to a girl knowing she is going to **** you over. I used to just do the whole random girls at parties but I don't know how to deal with a ***** playing games and ****. I know I need to just drop the ***** but I suppose I just need to vent on how ****ing stupid my girl is. Nothing but games. Trying to make me feel like our problems are my fault. Worse part is if I end it hard I know she will slash my tires or break my windows out even though I am on base. :box: :nervous:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay I was being a drama queen. I have calmed down a little. The girl I am sorta with is 4 years older then me but so immature it seems. She said she wanted to get married and all this **** but now shes being a complete *****. Egh What would you guys do, just back off for a while and not talk to her until she calls? Gah I guess a lot changes after moving in with someone. It sucks. We always fight when one of us is deployed or out of town... Maybe I am just insecure , I have just been ****ed over so many times in the past, i dont know how to un-fvck myself...
 
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I think of it this way.

If she ain't willing to spend years and YEARS with you to know for sure you'll last, then she won't last.
 
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