R.U.G.
Master Don Juan
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Never had an Asian woman. I prefer Mediterranean women.You guys should just move to Asia and do ur god given duty - pass on the lineage!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Never had an Asian woman. I prefer Mediterranean women.You guys should just move to Asia and do ur god given duty - pass on the lineage!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea, but either do this or get azz raped like Jonny Depp. Amanda Heard got 7 mill. from Depp for 2 years of marriage. One of those years, they were separated. BS that ain't happening to me.It's like preparing to go to a fvcking war, is what it sounds like to me.
When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" HahahMy neighbors look at me strangley sometimes when the see different women and different cars. Oh, well, sucks for them. My neighbor, who redid his exterior to now look like mine just bought himself a new Mustang Cobra. I joked with him... So, the mothership approved of this purchase? He didn't find that funny, but others did, with the women raising their eyebrows or having a smug look on their face.
Marriage used to be a right of passage for both people. Now, its security for the woman and a ball and chain for most men. Fact of the matter is that I've heard more than one woman in my office state after marriage, we're going to limit those bjs. It hurts my jaw or too much to swallow, etc. They mostly do it to get the license, security and kiddos. They know they got the man by the balls once that is taken care of.
Marriage, in general, is a losing proposition for the man. There is zero benefit. There is no guarantee of companionship. No guarantee of love, honesty or respect. No cleaning up the house (most women are messier than men; despite what Hollywood wants you to believe). No cooking (most think cooking in NYC is Uber eats or take out). No raising or rearing of the kiddos (that's what daycare is for).
So, I ask the forum, what is the point of marriage then for the man? Even if he had less resources than the woman, he'll really be up sh!ts creek if and when she decides to divorce. I know a few men that have two to three jobs just to pay alimony and child support. The attys really made a mockery of a once strong institution.
R.U.G. : The man with the 2014 Seattle Seahawks defense in the dating gameYea, but either do this or get azz raped like Jonny Depp. Amanda Heard got 7 mill. from Depp for 2 years of marriage. One of those years, they were separated. BS that ain't happening to me.
And yea, Divorce IS war, so don't get married so you do not have to experience it. The best defense is an amazing offense.
Spanish?Never had an Asian woman. I prefer Mediterranean women.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Buffaloes has rings attached at their noses that's used to pull them around.When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" Hahah
When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" Hahah
Sometimes. The has to be proportional. Need a nice azz and boobs; along with a nice face.Spanish?
I don't have any preferences with women.Sometimes. The has to be proportional. Need a nice azz and boobs; along with a nice face.
Some decent points.Marriage, in general, is a losing proposition for the man. There is zero benefit. There is no guarantee of companionship. No guarantee of love, honesty or respect. No cleaning up the house (most women are messier than men; despite what Hollywood wants you to believe). No cooking (most think cooking in NYC is Uber eats or take out). No raising or rearing of the kiddos (that's what daycare is for).
So, I ask the forum, what is the point of marriage then for the man? Even if he had less resources than the woman, he'll really be up sh!ts creek if and when she decides to divorce. I know a few men that have two to three jobs just to pay alimony and child support. The attys really made a mockery of a once strong institution.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some decent points.
Yet what about all those couples you see in their 20s/30s who are married with 2/3 kids? They are all miserable? They are all handcuffed to the wife? They are all regretting getting married young and starting a family? Or is it all societal brainwashing?
If I had 2 kids with a woman I liked, as long as she doesn’t destroy you, emotionally and financially, I wouldn’t mind giving alimony and support.
It’s not so much about “committing” and finding “love”, it’s about having kids with a stable women. What’s the alternative?