"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never make plans with girls in advance

Dhoulmagus

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It always results in a flake for me. I had this one girl flake on me for a bar date we had planned ahead like 4 days in advance. Yesterday, I randomly told her we should hang out that night and we did and had lots of sex. Also, I now attack within 10- 5 minutes. If she is talking to you for more than 5 minutes than she must think you are attractive enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Look who discovered America...lol jk

Seriously...dont waste time.
 

No.Danny

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Yeah. I think we all find this out sooner or later
 

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Eh, I think it's more of you planned too far ahead. I try to plan no further than 3 days ahead. Most of the time, I won't go past 2 days. But yeah, being spontaneous works well too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bingo-Player

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hey you can plan as much as you like

as long as she don't know it and it looks spontaneous who cares ;)
 

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You can plan as far in advance as you'd like if you:

1. Spin multiple plates
2. Have a take it or leave it attitude

I find that planning in advance actually builds significant pu$$y-tingling anticipation if they're really interested in you, and you do not initiate between scheduling the date and showing up.

If they flake, you offer them the opportunity to get in touch to reschedule and go ghost.
 

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Has a date last night that I had asked her on exactly a week ago. First date too. Told her I was busy all last week with work, already had plans for the weekend and that we should meet next Tuesday. No issues. She actually confirmed we were still on multiple times with me. Lets just say the date went smushingly ;) Multiple plates probably helps. Trick is to be somewhat (read:SOMEWHAT) aloof...they'll be like putty in your hands.
 

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Never had a problem, and because of how busy I am that is the only way I can go out with a chick if she wants to see me again. If they say "something came up" I just respond "Ok, take care" and I always have them call back and say "never mind, I re-arranged things and we are still on." Then I go "Ok, see you then." Sometimes people really do have things come up, so I let it slip once. The key I have found for anything that has to do with a woman, is treat her with indifference, and I mean real indifference, not pretending. Really have too much going on so that you really don't give a fock if she cancels, just fill it in with another plate or activity that day. As soon as you do, they for some reason are like clay in your hands and you will start getting so much pu-tang thrown at you it's not even funny, seriously. Genuinely don't give a fock, once you can master this you will be on your way. I'm not saying to be a d!ck, indifference is the key word. Women are wacky.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sylvester the cat said:
looks like someone find where a poster found his name :p, weaker game if compared to the older ones.



but thing is is really don't matter much, looking espontaneus can be nice and work, but that also means she only did go because she didn't had anything else to do, course if a girl don't show up or says "oh, I forgot" its low interest then its really a would you waste time with her again? then that is where you become espontaneus and invite a filler out on that same day
 
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