"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never make plans with girls in advance

Dhoulmagus

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It always results in a flake for me. I had this one girl flake on me for a bar date we had planned ahead like 4 days in advance. Yesterday, I randomly told her we should hang out that night and we did and had lots of sex. Also, I now attack within 10- 5 minutes. If she is talking to you for more than 5 minutes than she must think you are attractive enough.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Look who discovered America...lol jk

Seriously...dont waste time.
 

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Yeah. I think we all find this out sooner or later
 

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Eh, I think it's more of you planned too far ahead. I try to plan no further than 3 days ahead. Most of the time, I won't go past 2 days. But yeah, being spontaneous works well too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey you can plan as much as you like

as long as she don't know it and it looks spontaneous who cares ;)
 

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You can plan as far in advance as you'd like if you:

1. Spin multiple plates
2. Have a take it or leave it attitude

I find that planning in advance actually builds significant pu$$y-tingling anticipation if they're really interested in you, and you do not initiate between scheduling the date and showing up.

If they flake, you offer them the opportunity to get in touch to reschedule and go ghost.
 

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Has a date last night that I had asked her on exactly a week ago. First date too. Told her I was busy all last week with work, already had plans for the weekend and that we should meet next Tuesday. No issues. She actually confirmed we were still on multiple times with me. Lets just say the date went smushingly ;) Multiple plates probably helps. Trick is to be somewhat (read:SOMEWHAT) aloof...they'll be like putty in your hands.
 

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Never had a problem, and because of how busy I am that is the only way I can go out with a chick if she wants to see me again. If they say "something came up" I just respond "Ok, take care" and I always have them call back and say "never mind, I re-arranged things and we are still on." Then I go "Ok, see you then." Sometimes people really do have things come up, so I let it slip once. The key I have found for anything that has to do with a woman, is treat her with indifference, and I mean real indifference, not pretending. Really have too much going on so that you really don't give a fock if she cancels, just fill it in with another plate or activity that day. As soon as you do, they for some reason are like clay in your hands and you will start getting so much pu-tang thrown at you it's not even funny, seriously. Genuinely don't give a fock, once you can master this you will be on your way. I'm not saying to be a d!ck, indifference is the key word. Women are wacky.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sylvester the cat said:
looks like someone find where a poster found his name :p, weaker game if compared to the older ones.



but thing is is really don't matter much, looking espontaneus can be nice and work, but that also means she only did go because she didn't had anything else to do, course if a girl don't show up or says "oh, I forgot" its low interest then its really a would you waste time with her again? then that is where you become espontaneus and invite a filler out on that same day
 
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