"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never let a 1 treat you bad

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Ok, im pretty good looking, id say a 10. :D Im on a train with my friend who i grew up with and a girl, a ugly 1. :rolleyes: who we met at a party. She got on the same train with us when we were going home. On the train, im bein nice just tryin to have a normal convo with her and she's trying to play me, trying to embarass me in front of the passengers. Everytime id say something to her she tried to turn it negative. Its almost like she was trying to make me look stupid or reject me. I then opened my rhyme book and closed it, then proceeded to diss the **** outta her. I personally have no trouble causing a scene. I ragged on her so bad my friend told me to stop. she got off the next stop. her stop was about 8 away. Id never get dissed or played by a 1 and guys, don't take no **** from a 1-5 or else ud live to regret it. She lucky my girl wasn't there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are presented with two sacks. One sack contains 50 black balls, and the other contains 50 white balls. You will be blindfolded and asked to draw a ball from one of the two sacks (you are just as likely to draw a ball from either bag). If you draw a white ball, you will win enough money for you to retire. Before you put on the blindfold, how would you rearrange the balls so as to maximize the probability of drawing a white ball? (Hint: a bag could contain more or less than 50 balls) Now imagine the same situation, however, you will only win the money if you do NOT draw a black ball? How would you arrange the balls to minimize the probability of drawing a black ball?
 

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Rgeere, Is you're balls in the bag too? if it is, tell me in advance so i won't dig in it.
 

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Have a one nutt sack. White

BTW, how are the honeys there in funky town?
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
You are presented with two sacks. One sack contains 50 black balls, and the other contains 50 white balls. You will be blindfolded and asked to draw a ball from one of the two sacks (you are just as likely to draw a ball from either bag). If you draw a white ball, you will win enough money for you to retire. Before you put on the blindfold, how would you rearrange the balls so as to maximize the probability of drawing a white ball? (Hint: a bag could contain more or less than 50 balls) Now imagine the same situation, however, you will only win the money if you do NOT draw a black ball? How would you arrange the balls to minimize the probability of drawing a black ball?
Omg i'm so confused.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by rgeere
You are presented with two sacks. One sack contains 50 black balls, and the other contains 50 white balls.
How many guys were castrated? :D

Jeez. Stupid stuff like this really makes me laugh sometimes.
 

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Yo rgeere, if you wanna talk about balls and sacks, please open your own thread on it ok? i don't appreciate you talking about other subjects on my threads. Thank You. The purpose of this thread is that ugly girls with bad attitudes may try to bring you down. Don't let them. in fact, dont let any girl bring your attitude down. I was in that rut before and i couldn't approach women for a while, i felt like cuz 1 woman always teased me, i wasn't liked by other women. im sure yall all know the feeling.
 

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Ok, should I let a 7 treat me bad? what about an 8 or a 9? Should I be their foot-stool? :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by NoBull
Ok, should I let a 7 treat me bad? what about an 8 or a 9? Should I be their foot-stool? :rolleyes:
well it depends..does she have a nice ass ? :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well it takes me a little longer to get around to dissin the 9's and 10's. Ill tell a 10 that she's one zero. like 1-0.
 
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