"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never kiss a girl. Need help ASAP

negativefcf

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Hi guys,

This might sound strange, but I have yet to kiss a girl. I am going out with this girl next wednesday. she's really into me. bleh bleh

but I haven't close the deal (i.e. kiss) becuase I have never kiss a girl. You guys have any suggestions?

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Coolage

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don't worry about it. it's comes pretty easy just go for it
 
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AlexTheGreat

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from experience, the hardest part is actually getting the balls to do it. Afterwards, after the lips are locked, your instincts start to awaken and it will progress naturally. So, simply move in, close with her, then let it happen.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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The key is not just to kiss her. You better make sure that your hands are touching her. Whether it be her arms, back, whatever! keep the hands moving and touching her while you are kissing
 

belividere

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dont worry about it. Like you said she is into you. Just go and have fun. If at anytime during the date you feel that she is open for a kiss than go in and give it to her. There are too many links to the bible to even start giving out so I would suggest going back to the reading and cherry picking topics that may help you out.

Best of luck. If it doesn't happen than dont worry. Don't sweat over something just because it is your first time. If you dont want to go through with it because you lack attraction than dont. At the same time if you do like her than you are better to be rejected than to regret. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aftershock

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I'd just suggest a pack of mints too, they can come in useful.
 

Thund3rstruck07

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it is going to be stinky, sweaty and awkward. and if shes kissed someone else before, she will tell you that it sucks. be prepared. just dont sit there and move ur lips. its all instinctual really, but just dont stop moving. oh and you be the one to break the kiss, not her. it shows balls. and is your age right? 34? man, i dont mean to be rude at all or anything, but where have you been? WWII was over a while ago, u can come back out of hiding. no offense intended.
 

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Originally posted by Thund3rstruck07
it is going to be stinky, sweaty and awkward. and if shes kissed someone else before, she will tell you that it sucks. be prepared. just dont sit there and move ur lips. its all instinctual really, but just dont stop moving. oh and you be the one to break the kiss, not her. it shows balls. and is your age right? 34? man, i dont mean to be rude at all or anything, but where have you been? WWII was over a while ago, u can come back out of hiding. no offense intended.
LMAO you were looking at his post count. Not his age :p
 

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The first kiss with any girl is an important step in your progress into her pants. I didn't know how to kiss a girl either. My first time was sloppy and bad, but I learn. Not everyone will pick it up naturally. Key thing is to go slowly and caress her face with your hands while you're kissing. If she doesn't know what she's doing, then take control. Main thing is keep it slow and steady, also every now and then pull back, look her in the eyes, go forward slowly, stop, let her come to you.
 

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my first kiss was sloppy as hell

it's still memorable and stuff but damn, it was sloppy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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escobar04

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my first kiss was sloppy as hell

it's still memorable and stuff but damn, it was sloppy

my mouth was dry and everything

wack
 
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