"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Never ignore redflags

C00lAF

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Long story short

Met this chick, "fell in love" with me within 4 hours of texting(dafuq?), told her over and over im not a relationship guy, she agrees but tells me thats she is going to talk to me like im her boyfriend, i told her alright(MAD **** up from my part), comes over had sex. After that she started giving me un wanted attention(calling me whenever, asking me who i were with on the phone, shows up unannounced, and when i dont answer messages me from 4 different apps, let alone missed calls minimum of 10) so i told her i dont want to see, talk or have anything with her anymore, she got mad, started calling me names, tells me that i played her heart and used her and all that ****. List of the crazy things she have done to get me to contact her again
1.came every day to my apartment UNANNOUNCED for a week
2.checked every person that i have tagged photo with on social media and contacted them
3.after blocking her number she started calling me from various numbers, total number of 8.
4.made her cousin talk to me in person
5. Threaten me to accuse me of rape
6.made her mother call me
7. Threaten me that when she sees me she is going to commit a crime
8.weird messages of her wanting to commit suicide if i didnt talk to her
9.bunch of other **** i dont remeber

I never contacted her tho even after she did all of this, she is gone now.

Moral of the story is to never ignore red flags
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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This chick is a psychopath...I would contact authorities.

Dude this chick didnt have a red flag...she had a red blanket.
 

Masculinity

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Document everything. Or the one with a red flag behind bars will be you.
 

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Just a tip. .

The best way to get rid of a 'crazy' girl is to go full Beta. Write her a poem, send flowers to her house, declare your undying love for her etc etc.. then when her fear of intimacy takes over she will likely break it off or you can go your own way a free Man.

Dumping a girl with abandonment issues can give you Hell hence the false accusations etc.

Go full Beta!
 

RangerMIke

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This chick is a psychopath...I would contact authorities.

Dude this chick didnt have a red flag...she had a red blanket.
For a King size bed... with flashing red LEDs sown in the fabric.

I had one like this in the mid 90s when I was stationed in Germany... she was a Spanish chick... I met her on vacation in Barcelona and she followed me back to my base. Her stalking didn't end until the Police arrested her after she took a tire iron to my car and slashed my tires... She went back to Spain, never heard from her again.

She had red flags as well... I ignored them and just made excuses thinking she was different since she was from Barci.... This is when I learned all chicks are the same.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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