"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Never go back. . .

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Guys, when you see stuff like nice guys getting the goodies, they serve as only an exception. I felt that way recently. I felt like I could bond with this girl, to get to know her better. Then go in. But there are many reasons against that:

1) It takes too damn long. In high school, I'm really worried about getting pvssy or not. But this stuff....damn....you just start feeling used.

2) They get tired quick. Let me put it this way. You are a television to them. You're there when they're bored and have absolutely nothing to do. You're a friggin appliance. With legs.

3) You are their friend. Now you might think this is good and all, but now you their friend for life. Not BF, not fvck buddy...just FRIEND. And they say how NICE you are to all HER friends and instead of spreading how cool you are like nice guys wish it happened, they do it subconciously. This also rules out all her friends who want a real man.

Now, I'm not saying that you shouuld be an ass. However, always be a challenge. I've fallen from that. I succumbed to the dark side and the nice guy tendencies over took me. Yet 2 days later, I b1tchslapped byself, and now, I am here telling you to NEVER GO BACK. Stay where you are and always move forward. Remember, running repeatedly into a wall will not knock it down. You must use another way such as the power of dynamite. That power is DJism.

(i dunno if this qualifies as a tip or not, all i know is that i had to get it out)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Believe me, bro, I know exactly what you mean. I've got a few female friends, but I've gotten tired of making them. Now, if a girl ain't interested in me, that's the end of that chapter.
 

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It's okay to have female friends if you know you probably aren't ever going to have any interest in a relationship with them, but I'm a lot like you guys. I can't stand making friends with girls. You get too many, and people might start thinkin' you're gay.
 

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another thing...nice guys take the heat too. if you're not nice even a little or start thinking about yourself just a little, then they throw up those b1tch sheilds that you gotta fight thru.

but i choose not to fight thru them. simply to walk past them. take another route. i don't need them. they need me, so i'm gonna live life without them and the inevitable happens. they run back with apologies and all that horsesh1t. whatever. i'm through with this. never go back
 
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