"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never Forget Racism

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Sardaukar

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I'm sure a lot of you would like to think that most racism are mere figments of the imagination. But I assure you, it's out there, it is insidious, and it must be combated.

http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tm...1/od_afp/afplifestylebritain_050211194735&e=2

I'd like to give an example of Associated French Press. This news agency strikes me as clearly racist in its articles that depicts Asians as "strange" and abandoned in favor of the White world.

The kind of spin that AFP produces can be found in practically no other foreign language agency.

For example, even if there was a white, French woman sleeping around the whole of Tokyo in a desperate bid to find her Asian prince, of whom some people surveyed say are more "loyal and caring" than their Western counterparts, such a story would simply not be deemed worthy enough to break the tabloids. The story would not make it because the racial pride of Western men would be at stake.

The fact that double standards are applied so freely might imply that our guardians of Kum Ba Yah!, and the people who present themselves as infallible, may not be as saintly as they claim to be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all they did was generalize that Asian men are more conservative and less willing to give-and-go than a white man. I completely agree with their generalization.

This story broke the news b/c its unusual. This is not a story about racism my friend. All this is, is you being jealous that the Asian woman finds white men more attractive.
 

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I love satire.

But you must be careful because most people will lash out at obvious targets.
 

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I won't disagree that white people can be subjected to racism.

To stop racism, you must recognise racism.

And a lot of people here only recognise racism when it happens to them.

When it happens to other people, it's just a joke isn't it? It's just a 'correct generalisation' isn't it?

Maybe when someone speaks up, you should listen rather than dismiss. Nobody is above racism, and being subjected to it can in itself create more racism.

End racism. Listen.
 

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You're joking right?

A single white woman searching for a suitor in Japan is not comparable to this situation, where many asian women are searching for white suitors.

Now if a significant amount of women went to Japan for asian males, I bet there would some short story on that too.

Stop grasping at straws.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I can't believe this thread...
 
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