That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
positivityinjection... thats all you. you just got treated.Smack said:We have absolutely no evidence of this. In fact, his attitude suggests the opposite - that he is a frustrated virgin that even the most hippopotamus like girls reject, or he was in a long term monogamous relationship and got cheated on or dumped.
Hell, I have no problem with his lifestyle (which, again, he claims but we have no proof and his attitude suggests otherwise). It's none of my business. Entirely up to him. But I do have a problem with him having the audacity to call us all AFC's, chumps and virgins simply because we will enter a monogamous relationship with a girl we like. I think he belongs more on a player forum. Somewhere where they all use the Mystery Method ... or worship Ross Jefferies and Speed Seduction. Up to him. Perhaps he might grow to be the gurus that he probably loves so much. Threatening suicide over a girl, or 50, alone, depressed and smelling girl's arses.SmoothTalker said:How, by saying he sits in his basement but also gets *****?
Obviously I didn't mean ALL day, I just ment aside from going out to get laid, he probably doesn't do much.
Connect4's right though, if he wants to do this, whatever, it's not my business. I think he's an idiot, but if it makes him "happy"..
You said you weren't pvsseater but you didn't say skiptomylou781 which leaves:positivity_injection said:ok dumbazz i was never pvssyeater, why are u so idiotic? all you can do is hate on a player, what kind of nerdy shyt does that make u? this thread has ADVICE, and if u dont follow it, u'll also be feeling the pain when your beloved gf starts pulling shyt on u (as been proven by many many threads on here)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ive helped a good # of people on here actually, including DasaniWater, Chriz, and others, so shut ur ****in trap aight nigga?young_gun said:Hey Skip, do us all a favor and quit posting here. You aren't:
1) liked here
2) respected here
3) taken seriously
4) doing anything to help anyone
5) offering any advice that makes any sense or is at all helpful
6) getting any pvssy
Everything you post is annoying and childish. If I were you I'd kick my own ass. Get a life and quit being a keyboard jockey, "tough guy".
playa99 said:cheating is when your in a relationship and you are unfaithful to the other person involved. Or at least thats what 99% of society thinks,
hmmmm whos wrong here?
YOU
you can think what you want by calling us AFC chumps
but you arent helping anyone by doing that
so give us some constuctive advise which will motivate us
and not go against society
thanks
the thing is with positivity,Connect4 said:Everyone lives there own lives... Just let them be.. Know yourself and know what you want in a relationship. You don't have to attack others just because they live a certain way, and vice versa.
To you it may be pathetic or wrong, but to others, it's good advice.
I think Positivity has some good advice for Players, because he has experience with that. He is looking out for THEM. Respect that.
Those who are looking for something different such as a LTR is obviously going to think otherwise.. Go look for advice that brings VALUE to YOU, and quit wasting energy to try to bring others down and convert them to your views...
It's pointless. If they Truly want to change, they will do it on there own.
PEACE out
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
playa99 said:the thing is with positivity,
he is saying that anyone who disagrees with him is a chump.
His advice is good for players
but this is the DON JUAN center not the PLAYER centre where positivity is the king who can loook down on us all and tell us were chumps
were here to help each other learn
people talk back to you cause of the way you make your posts,positivity_injection said:no no playa99 (by the way, if u got a username like this, why not be a playa then??)
the fact that 99% thinks this, and 99% of guys are one form of AFC or another, then i know that i am onto something here, and dude, dont follow society, cuz society is meant to control you, and hold u back from being the don juan that YOU truly wanna be........
im only calling all of you AFC chumps cuz u are all starting to hate on me first, and ill goddamn sure talk back if im talked to the way i am (take a look at how people in this thread talking to me, even tho my initial motive was to JUST give advice, and thats it)