"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How, by saying he sits in his basement but also gets *****?

Obviously I didn't mean ALL day, I just ment aside from going out to get laid, he probably doesn't do much.

Connect4's right though, if he wants to do this, whatever, it's not my business. I think he's an idiot, but if it makes him "happy"..
 
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Smack said:
We have absolutely no evidence of this. In fact, his attitude suggests the opposite - that he is a frustrated virgin that even the most hippopotamus like girls reject, or he was in a long term monogamous relationship and got cheated on or dumped.
positivityinjection... thats all you. you just got treated.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
How, by saying he sits in his basement but also gets *****?

Obviously I didn't mean ALL day, I just ment aside from going out to get laid, he probably doesn't do much.

Connect4's right though, if he wants to do this, whatever, it's not my business. I think he's an idiot, but if it makes him "happy"..
Hell, I have no problem with his lifestyle (which, again, he claims but we have no proof and his attitude suggests otherwise). It's none of my business. Entirely up to him. But I do have a problem with him having the audacity to call us all AFC's, chumps and virgins simply because we will enter a monogamous relationship with a girl we like. I think he belongs more on a player forum. Somewhere where they all use the Mystery Method ... or worship Ross Jefferies and Speed Seduction. Up to him. Perhaps he might grow to be the gurus that he probably loves so much. Threatening suicide over a girl, or 50, alone, depressed and smelling girl's arses.
 

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positivity_injection said:
ok dumbazz i was never pvssyeater, why are u so idiotic? all you can do is hate on a player, what kind of nerdy shyt does that make u? this thread has ADVICE, and if u dont follow it, u'll also be feeling the pain when your beloved gf starts pulling shyt on u (as been proven by many many threads on here)
You said you weren't pvsseater but you didn't say skiptomylou781 which leaves:

skiptomylou781 (banned),
skip 2 my lou (banned),
Skip from the grave (banned),
Skip is a Biitch (banned),
Skip is back (banned),
skip the pimp (banned),
skip the russian (banned),
Skip to my lou (banned),
skip to my lou 781 (banned),
skip to my l ou 781 (banned),
skip to my (double space) lou (banned),
skip2mylou again (banned),
skip2mylou1981 (banned),
skip2mylou 781 (banned),
skip 781 (banned),

Dude, I'm surprised you stayed this long.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ive posted evidence before you ****in retards, i posted pics of me and different gf's i had ON THIS GODDAMN SITE

Faded Image, 80% of those werent me........u think id make those double spaced names or names like "skip is a biitch"????

that was a ****ing troll who even admitted that he was using my name to **** around, i keep coming back cuz i ****in want to, cuz i control what i do, not some faggots on a forum who cant see a playa when one slaps em upside the head

just like a troll peice of shyt can create a sn called Faded_Image, Faded Image, Faded__Image, ect ect......would u then be happy if people thought that was u when it actually wasnt???
 

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positivity injection you are a jerk and the worst thing is people are taking your advice

also you sound a lot like ultimate player aka skip2mylou aka fvcking tool

seriously your advocating cheating on a girl :S
im confused
this will make you insecure
and if a girl who you really like takes you back
their will be no trust in the relationship.
ok i think people should be able to play around
but when they're not in a relationshop
It doesnt protect your heart
YOU WILL BECOME INSECURE AND LONELY AS THE ONLY THING YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT IS THE SEX AND YOU HAVE NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH ANYONE
dont try coming back being all angry calling me a worthless virgin either
im in an LTR and had sex a couple of hours prior to writing this post

this forum needs an overhaul

PEOPLE THINK THIS IS ADVICE
this is a jerk
telling you to be
you guessed it
A JERK
you will become repulsed by a lot of women
you will NEVER achieve happyness this way
positivity injection
you are childish and i wouldnt be surprised if u were a nerdy 13 yr old who feels empowered talking down and trying to insult people who are trying to learn
if you have something sensible to post
please enlighten us
if sosuave is saying cheating is good im outta here lol
 

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positivity injection you are a jerk and the worst thing is people are taking your advice

also you sound a lot like ultimate player aka skip2mylou aka fvcking tool

seriously your advocating cheating on a girl :S
im confused
this will make you insecure
and if a girl who you really like takes you back
their will be no trust in the relationship.
ok i think people should be able to play around
but when they're not in a relationshop
It doesnt protect your heart
YOU WILL BECOME INSECURE AND LONELY AS THE ONLY THING YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT IS THE SEX AND YOU HAVE NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH ANYONE
dont try coming back being all angry calling me a worthless virgin either
im in an LTR and had sex a couple of hours prior to writing this post

this forum needs an overhaul

PEOPLE THINK THIS IS ADVICE
this is a jerk
telling you to be
you guessed it
A JERK
you will become repulsed by a lot of women
you will NEVER achieve happyness this way
positivity injection
you are childish and i wouldnt be surprised if u were a nerdy 13 yr old who feels empowered talking down and trying to insult people who are trying to learn
if you have something sensible to post
please enlighten us
if sosuave is saying cheating is good im outta here lol
 

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Hey Skip, do us all a favor and quit posting here. You aren't:

1) liked here
2) respected here
3) taken seriously
4) doing anything to help anyone
5) offering any advice that makes any sense or is at all helpful
6) getting any pvssy

Everything you post is annoying and childish. If I were you I'd kick my own ass. Get a life and quit being a keyboard jockey, "tough guy".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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young_gun said:
Hey Skip, do us all a favor and quit posting here. You aren't:

1) liked here
2) respected here
3) taken seriously
4) doing anything to help anyone
5) offering any advice that makes any sense or is at all helpful
6) getting any pvssy

Everything you post is annoying and childish. If I were you I'd kick my own ass. Get a life and quit being a keyboard jockey, "tough guy".
ive helped a good # of people on here actually, including DasaniWater, Chriz, and others, so shut ur ****in trap aight nigga?

i get *****, so #6 is a blatant peice of **** assumption of yours which is ****in nerdy as hell cuz only nerds start playa hating on another playa

all u chumps need to get with the program before u start crying over the next girl that flakes on u or hurts u
 
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p.s. to all the AFC's

cheating is only cheating when its on your wife

if you are not engaged to be married or married, then NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO is all fair game and theres no such ****ing thing as cheating, its called "playing the numbers, having fun, and protecting your heart"

im waiting for the next virgin to come here posting how his gf does not treat him right, yet my advice gets ignored cuz the ****ing chumps are leading the other chumps!!
 

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cheating is when your in a relationship and you are unfaithful to the other person involved. Or at least thats what 99% of society thinks,
hmmmm whos wrong here?
YOU
you can think what you want by calling us AFC chumps
but you arent helping anyone by doing that
so give us some constuctive advise which will motivate us
and not go against society
thanks
 
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cheating is when your in a relationship and you are unfaithful to the other person involved. Or at least thats what 99% of society thinks,
hmmmm whos wrong here?
YOU
you can think what you want by calling us AFC chumps
but you arent helping anyone by doing that
so give us some constuctive advise which will motivate us
and not go against society
thanks

no no playa99 (by the way, if u got a username like this, why not be a playa then??)

the fact that 99% thinks this, and 99% of guys are one form of AFC or another, then i know that i am onto something here, and dude, dont follow society, cuz society is meant to control you, and hold u back from being the don juan that YOU truly wanna be........

im only calling all of you AFC chumps cuz u are all starting to hate on me first, and ill goddamn sure talk back if im talked to the way i am (take a look at how people in this thread talking to me, even tho my initial motive was to JUST give advice, and thats it)
 

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Connect4 said:
Everyone lives there own lives... Just let them be.. Know yourself and know what you want in a relationship. You don't have to attack others just because they live a certain way, and vice versa.

To you it may be pathetic or wrong, but to others, it's good advice.

I think Positivity has some good advice for Players, because he has experience with that. He is looking out for THEM. Respect that.

Those who are looking for something different such as a LTR is obviously going to think otherwise.. Go look for advice that brings VALUE to YOU, and quit wasting energy to try to bring others down and convert them to your views...
It's pointless. If they Truly want to change, they will do it on there own.

PEACE out
the thing is with positivity,
he is saying that anyone who disagrees with him is a chump.
His advice is good for players
but this is the DON JUAN center not the PLAYER centre where positivity is the king who can loook down on us all and tell us were chumps
were here to help each other learn
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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playa99 said:
the thing is with positivity,
he is saying that anyone who disagrees with him is a chump.
His advice is good for players
but this is the DON JUAN center not the PLAYER centre where positivity is the king who can loook down on us all and tell us were chumps
were here to help each other learn

dude, the thing with Connect4 who u just quoted, is that he is a virgin in his 20's, so any peice of advice coming outta his mouth on here (a seduction site) needs to be ignored, why would u wanna listen to someone who has no idea what a pvssy looks like???? I HATE THESE VIRGIN CHUMPS

edit: if u start LOOKING for a LTR, thats exactly the AFC behavior i am talking about, it turns u into a chump cuz now all of a sudden you are sensitive and too nice and trying way way too hard to find a perfect partner, AND THAT WONT WORK OUT UNLESS U HAVE TONS OF EXPERIENCE PLAYING THE FIELD BEFOREHAND and the reason why most of u disagree with me

a virgin cant jump into a LTR, i can post u 100 threads from guys on here about failing or failed relationships............they ALL fail, and the guys end up being a shell of themselves

OPEN YOUR GODDAMN EYES
 

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positivity_injection said:
no no playa99 (by the way, if u got a username like this, why not be a playa then??)

the fact that 99% thinks this, and 99% of guys are one form of AFC or another, then i know that i am onto something here, and dude, dont follow society, cuz society is meant to control you, and hold u back from being the don juan that YOU truly wanna be........

im only calling all of you AFC chumps cuz u are all starting to hate on me first, and ill goddamn sure talk back if im talked to the way i am (take a look at how people in this thread talking to me, even tho my initial motive was to JUST give advice, and thats it)
people talk back to you cause of the way you make your posts,
i could of worded the 99% of society thing differently,
what i meant was most peoples morals go against being unfaithful. including most people at this website. and even an AFC can have a good set of morals.
If people want to have multiple girlfriends thats fine.
But im not going to join you
And neither is most of society
You can be the don juan you want to be very easily, you can get the girl of your dreams an be faithful to her.
Thats just my opinion
 
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