You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
positivityinjection... thats all you. you just got treated.Smack said:We have absolutely no evidence of this. In fact, his attitude suggests the opposite - that he is a frustrated virgin that even the most hippopotamus like girls reject, or he was in a long term monogamous relationship and got cheated on or dumped.
Hell, I have no problem with his lifestyle (which, again, he claims but we have no proof and his attitude suggests otherwise). It's none of my business. Entirely up to him. But I do have a problem with him having the audacity to call us all AFC's, chumps and virgins simply because we will enter a monogamous relationship with a girl we like. I think he belongs more on a player forum. Somewhere where they all use the Mystery Method ... or worship Ross Jefferies and Speed Seduction. Up to him. Perhaps he might grow to be the gurus that he probably loves so much. Threatening suicide over a girl, or 50, alone, depressed and smelling girl's arses.SmoothTalker said:How, by saying he sits in his basement but also gets *****?
Obviously I didn't mean ALL day, I just ment aside from going out to get laid, he probably doesn't do much.
Connect4's right though, if he wants to do this, whatever, it's not my business. I think he's an idiot, but if it makes him "happy"..
You said you weren't pvsseater but you didn't say skiptomylou781 which leaves:positivity_injection said:ok dumbazz i was never pvssyeater, why are u so idiotic? all you can do is hate on a player, what kind of nerdy shyt does that make u? this thread has ADVICE, and if u dont follow it, u'll also be feeling the pain when your beloved gf starts pulling shyt on u (as been proven by many many threads on here)
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ive helped a good # of people on here actually, including DasaniWater, Chriz, and others, so shut ur ****in trap aight nigga?young_gun said:Hey Skip, do us all a favor and quit posting here. You aren't:
1) liked here
2) respected here
3) taken seriously
4) doing anything to help anyone
5) offering any advice that makes any sense or is at all helpful
6) getting any pvssy
Everything you post is annoying and childish. If I were you I'd kick my own ass. Get a life and quit being a keyboard jockey, "tough guy".
playa99 said:cheating is when your in a relationship and you are unfaithful to the other person involved. Or at least thats what 99% of society thinks,
hmmmm whos wrong here?
YOU
you can think what you want by calling us AFC chumps
but you arent helping anyone by doing that
so give us some constuctive advise which will motivate us
and not go against society
thanks
the thing is with positivity,Connect4 said:Everyone lives there own lives... Just let them be.. Know yourself and know what you want in a relationship. You don't have to attack others just because they live a certain way, and vice versa.
To you it may be pathetic or wrong, but to others, it's good advice.
I think Positivity has some good advice for Players, because he has experience with that. He is looking out for THEM. Respect that.
Those who are looking for something different such as a LTR is obviously going to think otherwise.. Go look for advice that brings VALUE to YOU, and quit wasting energy to try to bring others down and convert them to your views...
It's pointless. If they Truly want to change, they will do it on there own.
PEACE out
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
playa99 said:the thing is with positivity,
he is saying that anyone who disagrees with him is a chump.
His advice is good for players
but this is the DON JUAN center not the PLAYER centre where positivity is the king who can loook down on us all and tell us were chumps
were here to help each other learn
people talk back to you cause of the way you make your posts,positivity_injection said:no no playa99 (by the way, if u got a username like this, why not be a playa then??)
the fact that 99% thinks this, and 99% of guys are one form of AFC or another, then i know that i am onto something here, and dude, dont follow society, cuz society is meant to control you, and hold u back from being the don juan that YOU truly wanna be........
im only calling all of you AFC chumps cuz u are all starting to hate on me first, and ill goddamn sure talk back if im talked to the way i am (take a look at how people in this thread talking to me, even tho my initial motive was to JUST give advice, and thats it)