"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never do this!!!

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JPFromTally

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Ok, so you got this great girl and you've been dating her for 4 months or so. You have a great time but every once in a while you have your lovers' quarrels.

She wants you to hang out with her friends suggesting you all go out and have a great time at a bar. To you this sounds like fun... You and 3 or 4 babes going drinking and having a blast.

BE CAREFUL!!!! IT'S A TRAP!!!!

The friends are watching you're every move at this point and deep down inside the one's that don't have boyfriends will secretly despise what you and your girl have going. (You know how girls are).

They will do a lot of things to make you get pissed off. They will flirt with you to make your girlfriend jealous and cause a fight. They will get her drunk enough to make her do stupid things like dance with another guy. They will talk about other guys in front of you to make you uncomfortable. But it works... trust me it happened to me.. You end up having an argument with your girlfriend in front of them and this is where you blow it. They now have sufficient ammunition to hate you and convince your girlfriend that you are not right for her. Then they'll start reminding her of how much fun they had when they were single and the rest is history. All because women in general are spiteful, jealous and vindictive.

Just a warning....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mysteriousways

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Aztec....How did he leave you hanging....The advice was to not hang out with her & her friends....because it is a trap....because they will set the scene up so you can either get into an arugment or make you jealous...basically there goal is to stir up problems...becasue they are jealous of the relationship...
 
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Dude..its gonna happen sometime probably so lets not feel like a fukin moron here.Why even give a fuk about what theyll try.Look its about you.They wanna fuk up your mind.Put your ass on the line and see what you can do.Hopefully you can win some respect.If not fuk them...just dont get pissed off or angry.If you get pissed you lose.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II

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my exgf´s cousins (female cousin, how to say this in english? )

well.. they are all frustrated ugly bytches and became to my knowledge that they were always saying terrible things about me for her.

Its better this way, now Im out of that family!

Be careful with her family too.
 
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funny, this is how my girlfriend and i just broke up last thursday. her 21st birthday. the exact same situation.
 
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Mwahahaha!

How to lose a girl in ten days...

Time to start having fun

Thanks for the push JP, time to get evil on myself;)

T -3 days to the new me:)
 
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I agree, but who knows, even though sex is not the main goal here... you might end up in an orgy.... :cool:

Seriously though, Be on the look out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's kind of envy friendships. I could relate that to some guys that I used to hang out... They tried stuffs like that when I was dating someone.

I think if she keeps friends like that around her, she is responsible for that and she might be just like them in that phase of her life. When you change, people around you change... You don't keep those kind of people around if you don't approve those behaviors.

And, may be the case that she is not aware about her friends behavior too.

I was imagining they getting drunk, wanting to have group sex! :p hahahah
 
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