"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never been to a gym(yet)

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Hey guys, I'm 99% sure this has been covered before, but I wasn't sure where to look outside of the sticky posts, and I didn't wanna blow 2 hours looking for my answer there, so..


If I am going to start working out at a gym, what weight should I start at?(Or should I use an empty bar to get the correct form?) If need be I could submit pictures so you could critique my weakest points(which, living my last 19 years as a gamer, are pretty much everything lol).


Any comments, help, flames, judgements, etc would be appreciated! Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting the form down is a must. You dont want to injure yourself and then relearn it later on.

What are you trying to do? lose weight? gain weight?
 

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I am currently 160lb, most of it is belly chub(but I still look pretty average).

I would like to bulk up and eventually settle around 180lb-190lb. Maybe 200 if I like how I fit in it. I have bookmarked Warboss Alex's starting up thread, and written down a 3-day split to follow.
 

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Antarctica said:
Hey guys, I'm 99% sure this has been covered before, but I wasn't sure where to look outside of the sticky posts, and I didn't wanna blow 2 hours looking for my answer there, so..
"why should i waste my time when i can waste yours?"

ass.
 
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